Convince me why it's beter to be a female.I feel like a male stuck in a female body!?

Question

I think it's better to be a male because;
-no uterus, no menses so no fuss no PMS no need to buy pads
-no breast so no need to buy bras & no risk of breast cancer
-as a muslim no need to wear or buy hijab
-as a muslim male have the right on divorce & wives have to obey husband
-as a muslim, males get more inheritance
-no need to worry so much about my appearance
-males have more muscle mass so I can be stronger
-don't have to be miserably pregnant & go through the painful labour

Answer 1

I'm guessing you're stuck in a Muslim family. My advice? Move out. Get away from them. You'll feel better.

Answer 2

If you a female , you still a female even so you altered yourself.Its true about what you lists as the man life are be happy don't worry but there lots to be worried as a true man.
You should be happy as female coz there always a male that sincerely will die for you.Female always be finest and beautiful GOD creation .All life started in female stomach and pregnancy is the most wonderful time in female life coz you can really feel life living in you.Just be happy as what you are and ignored the wild fantasy in you , be a lady and you be true.Wassalam.

Answer 3

You can stay female and still enjoy life by curing the conditions you list as follows:

Drop the religion (it's stultifying)
Get a hysterectomy to cure the menses
Get mastectomy
See: drop the religion
Stay single AND drop the religion
See: drop the religion--automatic disinheritance will follow
Forget appearance
Join a gym--have you seen Starla?
See; get a hysterectomy
Good luck

Answer 4

I think you're a regular, free-spirited female stuck in a very cloistered environment that is making you feel claustrophobic. The only escape as you see it would be to fantasize about being a male, who according to you have all the privileges that you would equally like to enjoy. It's sad that your family hasn't moved with the times, I know several muslim families where the women are so evolved and independent and have wonderful, fulfilled lives.

I think it's women who are the vehicles of social change, and that change has to start at the family level. If you feel strongly about your situation, then rather than taking the easy way out by wanting to be male, why not seize your anger/ feeling of thwartedness to educate and enlighten some of your family members? Express how you feel. I'm sure you'll get support from some quarters. Educate yourself to the maximum possible because education opens up avenues in life like little else can. Then you might actually enjoy all the beautiful things it means to be a woman.

Take it from a fellow-female that being a woman is a true blessing. While periods are not the greatest thing to go through every month, they are hardly the end of the world. If you take it in the right spirit, it's a bit of an inconvenience that you learn to put up with and move on. Isn't everybody using the pot everyday, I'm sure no one derives great pleasure from the call of nature, but it's just one of those things in life. You can't crib about being a human (and not perhaps a plant or tree that didn't have to go through it) because of that, can you?

Men have to shave everyday.
Men have to earn a living , there's no choice. (as a woman you may choose not to, depending upon your priorities)
Men have to provide for their families, their kids.
Men have to always prove their strength, their maleness.
Men run the risk of prostrate cancer

A child when born is worth all the trouble you may go through during labour or pregnancy. Trust me, it's true. You would never experience such pure and intense love or joy if you could not be a mother. I don't think fathers can ever fully appreciate the extent to which a woman feels for her children.

But this is digression. I think the problem here is not about being male or female, but your partuicular situation, and that I think (without meaning to be racist or anything) has really to do with your religion, especially since you seem to be stuck in a non-progressive family.

It's easy to be an escapist. Why not be the change instead?

Answer 5

Nothing wrong in being female. But wonder why you are so miserable in a males body? So what if you are muslim or hindu or what. If you feel that you are trapped then get out of the closet or whatever country you are in at the moment. I take it that this is tabu in your feelings towards a woman. Hey buster women are strong. I bet I could beat your butt to the ground if I had too. You are asking a question with a question here. Convince me that you are truly a male. They are dominent. But why do you feel that you are trapped? Good luck and a good question.

Answer 6

being male is better. you have to work less to be respected. females suffer more sexual abuse than males, and the suffer more physically because of reproductive organs. this is why females have a larger pain threshold than males.

Answer 7

Turn into a She-male and contact me,I will open avenues for you,by the way stop cribbing about the religion part of it,if you don't like it leave it.

Answer 8

Being a male stuck in a womans body is a good feeling although for me it has been a long time.

Answer 9

I love being a man.

Answer 10

You've just degraded both genders. I think your being shallow!

Answer 11

Males dont stand risk of rape..
Males dont get unwanted pregnancies
males dont have to wear makeups..