people think i am crazy for turning away from my son he has disrespected my rules does what he wants comes when he wants and i only say i love you yes i can be mean but love him to he wants to come home at 3 am he got locked up got out in feb and has not change he think he can control me am i wrong for not wanting him in my home when i know he using drugs at 16
2007-03-18 19:08:43 · 7 answers · asked by evelyngarcia2012000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you worry what others think? You are the parent. You are in control.
I would get him into a drug rehabilitation program and assert your control as parent.
Cheers for your courage!
2007-03-18 19:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well this is a difficult one. i had this same problem with my step son a few years ago. being a parent is a tough job, but one we can never quit. even though you say you have turned away, i think we both know if you knew you could sincerely help him you would. finding a way to do that is the hard part. i mean you can't hold his hand, there are things he has to learn on his own. i think you are doing the right thing, just let him know how disappointed you are about what he is doing, and let him know you love him, and will be there when he decides to change, but won't do anything to help him until then. good luck, wish i could help you more.
2007-03-19 02:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that your in a tough spot....but your son will have to learn the hard way that drugs will make him losse the most importan thing in his life...si if you kick him put, he will learn a lesson over a period of time
2007-03-19 02:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to the opening question,yes-yes we do
2007-03-19 02:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually you are not making it hard enough for him!! i would make his life a living hell!! he needs it and will thank you for it later.. do you want him to have that life till he dies? then you might want to help him!
2007-03-19 03:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO U R NOT CRAZY.. I THINK U SHOULD PUT HIM IN JUVIE HALL TILL HE LEARNS HIS LESSON
2007-03-19 02:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by MiK3 =D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what you have to do to guide the next generation
2007-03-19 02:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by know it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋