My boyfriend and I have been living together for a couple months now, I'm 20 he's 25. Lately he isn't as affectionate sexually as he used to be. We haven't sex in about a week. He never enjoyed kissing much (just not his thing he says) but I never get more than a couple pecks on the lips from him each day. The only time he reaaally kisses me like I want is if he wants 'it'. He's weird about being affectionate, I think it sometimes makes him uncomfortable if I try. What is up with him? I'm so confused.
2007-03-18 18:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He must be pre-occupied with other things, like work. Must be tired. Or got problem you don't know. Or worried over something. A lot of things can affect a relationship. You shouldn't worry too much. There are really times like this...But continue being intimate with your guy...and he'll get on with it...
2007-03-18 19:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like to me your boyfriend is just not a man to express himself in the "hands-on" way. Be some what thankful because I am sure there is some girl out here with a boyfriend that won't keep his paws off. Sit down with him and be honest. Let him know the thoghts you are having and ask him if there's something wrong. Tell him why you have doubts and find away to resolve this quick before damage is done to your relationship.
2007-03-19 02:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELCOME TO MARRIED LIFE... and the definition of "dry spell"...
It has nothing to do with how attractive you are (I don't think you can change that much in a week, did you?).. And there can be a million reasons for it, from stress to boredom...
My suggestion is practice that one thing call COMMUNICATION and figure out what the deal is... Hopefully is nothing serious and it can be fix by something simple like being more adventurous to change the routine. I think it's too soon to worry about a medical or psychological problem...
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 02:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you are not married he is acting like he is. After awhile it's too much of an effort unless like you say" he wants some". Tell him if he ever wants it again he has to put in the time and make you feel love and desired.
2007-03-19 02:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you are sexually compatible. It is not normal for a man not to kiss his girlfriend. Honey, I think it is time for you to move on. Good luck and hope your next boyfriend is a great kisser.
2007-03-19 03:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by starflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut instinct. He may want to end the relationship or he may have a shitlaod on his mind. In the end ask him. If he doesn't answer then give him some space he will tell you when he's ready.
2007-03-19 01:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might find you attractive, but is not doing the things that make you feal that way. Don't get sucked in to having someone else taking the responsibility of your own self worth
2007-03-19 02:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is tired of the same routine. Go change your style, wear something seducive like a lacy baby doll lingerie and go pick up classes in exotic dancing, maybe that will help.
2007-03-19 02:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is ready to trade you in for someone different.
2007-03-19 02:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋