How do I get over my divorce depression without still worrying about what he does or who he does it with?

Question

My husband cheated on me and now we are going through a messy divorce. He left me with all of the problems and takes no responsibility for them. I am glad it's over, but it still hurts. And to top it off his dumb girlfriend emails me with updates as to how WONDERFUL their life is together. It makes me sick!

Answer 1

Um I would say that she is quiet the pathetic woman. If she is so comfortable in her relationship why does she find it necessary to prove it to you. I personally think that you should take some "you time" and get to know yourself again. Find the love you once had for yourself. The only worry you should have with an ex is if you have children. Then you should care who he has your kids around. I think you just need to find your self worth again. He cheated on you that makes him worthless not you. Sometimes people are too weak to say what they are feeling when a relationship is dead and it is easier to express through action. Get over it hun...it isn't worth it. Oh and change your e-mail or block her as a sender....send all of her mail to the junk mail folder.

Answer 2

time heals all wounds, it's truely the only way. Don't go out looking, don't start drinking, do get into one night stands.

I looked at it as a chance to start my life over and be who I wanted to be. I took up guitar and moved to a small little town in the rocky mountains. In essence, i created a whole new me; I even switched jobs completely.

Block the wenches emails, or just change addresses. Figure out what you want to do, take some time for you, and remember that you have a clean slate.

Answer 3

how do you get over divorce depression that is a really good question well i dont have a complete answer because its been 2 years and i am still working on it but it does get easier and better with each day some are worse than others though just keep your head up and take each day one at a time- as for his new ? ignore her she is just insecure about you and it probably the only way she can make herself feel better-sad for her! matt2269f@y

Answer 4

its a process one goes through, takes awhile, but as long as the home wrecker keeps e mailing u u won't get over it. she must be a very mean spirited woman, to want to keep hurting u. block her e mail, distance yourself from her. get some counseling, their life probably isn't all that, or she wouldn't feel the need to contact u. yes it does hurt, when we are left all alone to deal with the messes, while they are off living the good life, but what goes around comes around, and what she is doing to u now, will come back on her, focus on yourself, group therapy, go to church, meet new friends, don't let what she is doing to u affect your self worth because this is all about a man with no character no morals, and she is just like him. their life won't always be wonderful like she thinks.

Answer 5

I tell you what....if you see her email address delete it off immediately. Secondly, if there are plenty of problems to solves, take it one case at a time. In no time, you will have completed solveing all of them. Thirdly, Since your hubby has cheated before, forget the man and go on living your own life. Do the things you have not done before. No is your chance to live it up. Go on, don't procrastinate further , do it now.

Answer 6

I read what others wrote and agree with them.

Try to concentrate on healing yourself and on moving on.

Take care of yourself, your health, your looks, your brains and your future. Learn from this pain and ask God and good friends to help you...Time is the best remedy.
Good luck!

Answer 7

She is trying to rub it in your face. Her reasons are more complicated than for just "telling you the truth". She thinks your a threat, and its best you block her emails, or just get a new email address

Answer 8

go out and do it yourself