2007-03-18 18:52:39 · 14 answers · asked by gelvischalk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get under a different girl.
2007-03-22 09:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we don't move past a certain point like letting go of your girlfriend because you have not allowed yourself to really feel all your feelings associated with her loss. It is natural to avoid painful feelings, but when we do we often get stuck where we are. So let yourself think of her, and remember, and say goodbye.
Also consider what were the merits of the relationship. What made you feel the best when you were with her? Maybe there a certain activities etc that you associate with her, but that you could enjoy with others. Like maybe you went to fun clubs, or stayed up late watching old movies, or whatever. You can still do those fun things.
It is also common for people to remember things as better than they were. Take a reality check and see if you are forgetting the rough times.
Most important of all, tell yourself that the perfect girl for you is out there in your future, not in your past. And let it happen!
2007-03-19 02:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really care about her that much maybe you should tell her how you feel, she may be flattered that you still have such strong feelings for her, and decide to give it a second chance. try apologizing and be honest about how you feel for her, that's really what women want anyway. it cant hurt, i mean she went out with you once, she may again. what do you have to lose, at least you will know for sure and even if she says no you may possibly be able to find some understanding as to her reasons why. whatever happens, learn from it, that is the key to finding a permanent successful relationship. good luck man, and remember, sincere and honest, otherwise you're just lying to yourself.
2007-03-19 02:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by michael 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she's your first proper love then im sorry to tell you that u will neva entirely get over that.
but go out and make new girl mates (not for dating) because u will understand women more.
TRAVEL!! PARTY!! HAVE FUN!! these things are great for getting over ppl but most of all LAUGH!!
if u see her around just say hi but make sure the impression u give her is one saying ur over her completely even tho u may not be. good luck!!! love sophia xxx
2007-03-22 17:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by To put it bluntly... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. this is common. You just need to 1.stay busy with friends 2. find another girl 3.or tell your ex Just hav fun and stay busy. Surround urself with things you like and forget about her cry if you have to punch holes in the wall if it helps too
2007-03-19 01:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by hilary d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get over an ex, is to meet new people, change your surroundings, and find a new girl!
2007-03-19 01:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by nlocascio450404 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to start meeting new people, get out with your friends.
You will find somebody new and you ex will become a thing of the past.
2007-03-19 02:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude you and me are on the same page man. i can advise you, because i was in the same situation as you and still kind of am... meet new girls new ppl get busy in something keep your mind busy and it will make the process easier believe me... but yea best advice meet new girls especially... you dont know how much a new girl can help you forget about the last girl.. it helps alot
2007-03-19 01:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by nickname 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
train you mind to stop thinking about her and ask yourself has she wasted a year thinking of you, I don't think so otherwise you would both be thinking the same thing and would be together. Move on.
2007-03-19 03:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mindsetting, my dear. Pretend she has migrated to planet Pluto.
Look at other girls around you.
2007-03-19 02:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by september 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋