i fealt like i was used by a friend that was married and i new it was wrong but for some reason it fealt safe but i wound up getting my heart broken and iam just not over him
2007-03-18 18:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by HEATHER J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You forgot the rules..........If you cheat with a cheater then you cheat the cheater.
No one has sympathy for a female that deliberately sleeps with a married man. Sorry...... you had a chance
to say no, it was up to you and you blew that chance.
Now you need to ask yourself what if you had been the wife?
LEARN to tell yourself
........" I am worth more" .........
.......... "I deserve more " ..........
Then maybe next time you'll just say NO Thanks!
2007-03-18 18:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by LucySD 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone above me has answered the way I would have that I don't even need to say anything except ...."They are right"!
People only get used by people that let them. Go take a risk and get a relationship that is solely yours between yourself and someone morally available, and if you pick the right one, you won't feel used,.....you will feel loved, and they (if it's a good man) will not only address you sexually, but, the ENTIRE you! Messing with a married person is like trying to get water from a dry well. It's nothing but a bottomless ruse.
2007-03-18 19:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept with a married man! What do you think would happen. Rule 1 never ever sleep with a married man as 2 people will get hurt, the poor wife and you, he got what he wanted. did you honestly expect any diffrent (Note the question is expect any diffrent not want any diffrent)
2007-03-18 18:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you aint getting over the fact you let your guard down and you broke your own values for the disrespect that comes as a concequence of not having enough self control.
They do this to those who allow it to happen. Not every one says yes to a married man. No matter how fine and charming he is.
Build on your self esteem.
2007-03-18 18:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I very good question. You get what you ask for. Its not a man, its a women. Why would you sleep with a married man in a first place and secong why dont you should some self repect to yourself and say no to a married man. If you dont sleep with a married man then he will also not cheat with his wife. How about if you get married and your husband sleeps with all other womens. Did you ever thought about it.
2007-03-18 18:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To knowingly have sex with a married man, you deserve all you get.
2007-03-18 18:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are married and they dont want to get involved with you. u got used, dont sleep with married men, simple as that
2007-03-18 18:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Brandon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever rent a car, and then get upset because you have to eventually return it?
2007-03-18 18:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what about his wife her heart was broken too
2007-03-21 16:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allowed it by DISRESPECTING YOURSELF!
2007-03-18 18:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋