how would you know if it's a time for you and your spouse to get a divorce not that me and my husband are going to get divorce?
how would you know when your spouse is cheating on you?
2007-03-18 18:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by VAIN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no the reason I am asking is because my brothers girl is acting a bit weird and I wanted to know
2007-03-18 18:26:03 · update #1
I certainly hope it never happens to you, These are some of the tell tale signs.
good luck to you !
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1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse
1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
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3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
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4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
8) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
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2007-03-18 18:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if your marrige has ended. If you feel there is no way you can fix your problems and you don't love them anymore then I believe it's over. As for cheating, I have been cheated on many times and find that if you follow your gut instinct you will most probably be right. Don't stress over stuff that you have no proof of and do stress over the proof you do have.
2007-03-18 18:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so the problem is trusting ur husband.
u need to set & talk with a mom or relative and specify what is the case & check how serious is it.
and then maybe talking to ur husband about things worrying u
then give time to notice the change do not jump to a conclusion
tk & try to take it easy
2007-03-18 18:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would know the answer when you stop being in denial fo whats going on and face reality. Also, wnen you stop confusing loving some one with comformaty of being with some one for a long time.
2007-03-18 18:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attitude, body language will tell you if his cheating . After that , if he is the its time for a divorce.
2007-03-18 18:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nows the time for that divorce!
You need to admit that something is wrong with YOUR marriage.....not someone elses. The sooner you do, the sooner you can try to fix the problem.
2007-03-18 18:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you've tried enough to fix your difference but still end up unhappy. It's a big step specially if you have kids... Think a million folds...
2007-03-18 18:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk honestly and openly, and invite her to do the same.
If she can't then she having an affair.
2007-03-18 18:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the maury, or jerry springer show
2007-03-18 18:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking, you already know.
2007-03-18 18:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by ohbrother 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋