Have you lost someone you loved to an arranged marriage?

Question

My ex is being arranged to be married to someone else, he was my bf of almost 8 years. Has anyone else been through this? How do you move on?

Answer 1

I don't know if my ex was forced (he sms me when i found out bout his marriage and said that he was forced and how miserable he is) into it or he himself was willing when he went back to his country and got married. At this moment i don't even want to know the reasons. For me he is HISTORY. The moment he married whoever that ..... is, he's dead as far as i am concerned. I personally feel that if a guy have balls to fall in luv, then he shud have balls to marry that lady no matter wats others mite think or say. Its his life after all. No one has the rite to stop him not even the family. And if indeed the family is against the marriage, he shud stick by his decision and slowly try to change the family's view and convince them that his choice is the rite one. So my advise to you is leave him. There's no point waiting for him cos if he himself has given up on you, wats the point. Move on with your life. I have (though it hurts like hell sometimes when the memory comes rushing back) and so will you if u want to.

Answer 2

i just can only say if by an chance or by family pressures u r getting apart then its different other wise u r big fool.There was no love between u people and were passing time and may be satisfying ur bodily needs.
Especially remember sufferer is only girl as men love to have another gals

Answer 3

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