He asked her out. She went out with him. And whenever I brought it up she always made me feel like the bad guy. I was depressed for like 4 or 5 months. I even put on a few pounds. I am over him, but sometimes I still get a little upset when all she can talk about is her and him. His and her parents are in full support of this and even said that they could get married at 18( we are 16). Her mom said that if I was her friend then I should understand. But when someone recently did this to one of our others friends, all she could talk about was how she did'nt like that girl, and how that girl was so wrong blah blah blah. How do I get her to see that she did the same thing to me? Your thoughts, fell free to post whatever.
2007-03-18 17:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by lovleyblackbutterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know this situation all very well. VERY WELL! I was about your age when it first happend to me. It totallly changes my life. You should not let things like this get to you like it did. You are very young. Leave the world of adults like marriage to people that are 18 and older. Focus on your life and what it revolves. I did not have friends to help me nor parents. My firend took the girl that I was going to ask. That is nonsense, you do not need to understand. Her *** probably went through the same thing. SHE IS NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT YOUR FRIEND! HYPOCITE GIRL! IGNORANT! IF you are going to tell her that what she did to you was the same that she is going through, you have to be willing to put your friendship at TERMINATION MODE!
Lady, please you are 16 right? I am 21! Leave these problems for older people. You have a taste of what it is like. You can make better friends RIGHT NOW! Leave that friendship because it is not worth it. Find a friend that won't do the samething to you. That is what I did. From 5th grade on, I told my friends that if they ever decided to TRY go out with the girl that I was trying to go out with, our friendship was over. I hope I was of some help, at least take into consideration.
2007-03-18 18:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Eron Arreola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off your situation happens to alot of girls, and it's not that bad unless you and the guy had something before they got together. Stick with your friend you will find a better guy. Sometimes you find out things about the guy from that friend that makes you say thank goodness it's not me. You never know they could end up breaking up and are you going to be there to help the fallen or laugh in her face when it all happens, as me and my friends say sisters before misters.
2007-03-19 01:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go.. Because the guy chose your friend already.. Although its hard but you must learn that in friendship there should always be giving and understanding..Find someone else that you can loved for the rest of your life..And there's a plenty of time.. You deserve someone else.. someone that will loved you, respect you,and trust you..
2007-03-19 01:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always go out with him behind her back. Most "FRIENDS" do it sooner or later anyways. Competition sucks, doesn't it?
2007-03-19 01:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that this is even an issue shows you're too immature to be seriously dating anyway
2007-03-19 00:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up the other friend that does the same thing as her and when she bad mouths them defend the other girl. your friend would be like wtf. and you should tell her 2 stop being hypocritical.
2007-03-19 01:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋