I've stopped being attracted to my significant other. What is the best way to dump/divorce them with the least pain, stress, and sadness for the both of us?
2007-03-18 17:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by mansion7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A. Don't refer to it as "dumping."
B. Lack of attraction could be due to many things; try counseling.
C. If you still think it won't work, then admit that he and you could be happier apart.
2007-03-18 18:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been together. After many years this does happen to couples. Have you tried counselling ? Do you really want out ? Maybe you just need some time apart, without the divorce ? Think about it before acting on it.
2007-03-18 18:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I would begin with a mutual separation, and see what happens from there. Maybe you will miss your spouse, and realize that you want to stay married. Or, maybe you will both realize what is best for you is to divorce, and then it will be mutual, and not as heart breaking...
2007-03-18 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't an easy way of getting out of a relationship. Foremost, honesty. At least, thats what I would expect if my husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore.
2007-03-18 19:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Toni B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a way to brake up without hurting someone, but to tell them as easy and considerate as you can be. Telling them I'm not happy and you need someone who can love you the way that I can't. Is not you is me.
2007-03-19 01:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Toni B.
There is no easy way out of a relationship.
2007-03-22 16:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt one, go threw the motions of the whole break up. It is a learing experience.
2007-03-18 18:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with the person and tell them that you are not
happy and that you want a divorce. the longer you dwell
with the harder it will get.
2007-03-18 18:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel,well its the same thing happening to me,but I tell him and he doesnot wanna listen.
So I am praying he leaves!
2007-03-18 18:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound heartless. For their sake, break it off tactfully. There will be some sadness, but for yours and their sake it is much better to break it off ASAP.
2007-03-18 18:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋