why is it that men are quick to leave their kids for a new piece of a$$..my ex and i have a litlle girl whos 19months and im 8 months pregnant he dosent even come see her and she used to be his everything he calls every now and then and will see her if hes in town for about 15 min. but other than that he wont because of his gf..he left us about 6 months ago for a lady 10 yrs older than him whom he met a bar...i just dont understand how this could be. his gf always talks crap to me sayin i need to get over him but its not that easy together for 3 yrs and from one day to the next its over i cant just stop loving him and move on...what do i do im tired of looking for excuses to blame myself because in my heart i know i did nothing wrong.
2007-03-18 17:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by nahdya21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because he's thinking with his di*k and not his head, and I'm sure one day he will regret it... Also, she is probably rude to you because she's jealous, you are the mother of his 2 kids, one of which you are quite obviously carrying, which means that as early as 8 months ago, he was very into you, enough to conceive a child. Also, you are a constant reminder to her that she completely destroyed a relationship, and probably feels bad that he left you pregnant and alone. He probably refains from seeing his daughter for these same reasons. It's probably too hard to face the fact that he's a scumbag, and your pregnancy makes it obvious to him every time he's around. Just keep being a good mother to your babies, and one day when he begs for you back, tell him to go fu*k himself, or find another tramp to do it for him.
2007-03-18 17:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very blessed, Thank god that its has happed now then 25 years down the road that by then you are to old. you desved better. Learn that you need to do your homework better before you go into any marriage. Just think what kind of live a person has who goes to bar all time. He is not running away from you but running away from all his respondabliltes. You need a man and not a runaway.
2007-03-19 00:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not men it just your man. I have custody of my son, It gos both ways. Women leave their kids as well. He one of those guys that can't Handel it.. But don't say "men" cuss not all men are the same. I have homies that don't even see their kids. I don't see how they can live knowing their not there for them.
2007-03-19 01:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by BZCranium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c he was stupid and only thinking with one head. He's not a real man if he puts another woman b/f his kids. I can't fault him if he just didn't want to be with you b/c I don't know what caused him to want to leave, but he should not neglect his kids.
2007-03-19 00:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know that you married an a$$ one that thinks with his little head instead of the one on his shoulders.
Move on.... would you want him back after this anyway?
2007-03-19 00:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better...get over him...he is not worth your time and energy
2007-03-19 00:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋