I have liked this guy from the time i first met him, it was definitely love at first sight and there was definitely chemistry. its been a while now, and everytime we meet there is always a lot of flirting. One night after partying, he came over to my place and we ended up making out and he stayed over. The next morning, when we talked about our feeling he said that since he is graduating college and very indecisive right now, i deserve better and we shud just be friends. The problem is, a few months back, what started out as a joke, we got into real indepth conversation about what we want out of our lives and if we were married where we wud stay and such, and everything he wanted was exactly what i want out of life. and once he even told my friend that if i asked him out he wud go out. I know he still has feelings for me, because of the way he acts around me after that night, but since he is shy and doesnt want either of us to get hurt is avoiding the relationship. what shud i do?
2007-03-18 17:12:27 · 4 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it sound like he was saying what he thought you want to hear
and now that he has done the deed. he making excuses.
sorry to say.but it sound like you just need to move on
he was not your mr. right.but maybe your mr. right now.
2007-03-18 17:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be it will...i know you don't want to hear that. It sounds to me that he didn't want to be committed but was looking more for a good time and just telling you what you wanted to hear. I think that if he really does indeed like you he will change his mind and come after you. It takes a lot of patience, but it could happen. I personally think you should just confront him and ask him straight up...lay it out on the table how you feel and leave it at that. Good luck!
2007-03-19 00:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by barbiebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. The worst thing that can happen is that he rejects you, but at least you'll have an answer. However, he sounds like he isn't ready now and probably won't be for awhile. You can try keeping in touch, but frankly I'd give it up, as it sounds like you're ready and he is not. Go out and find things to do and people to hang with and get your mind off him.
2007-03-19 01:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Mr Left ;)
2007-03-19 00:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋