2007-03-18 16:58:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if u r doing it for the right reasons, u dont think about the pain its not just physical its emotional and it is gonna be with you for the rest of your life. and when u r ready u wont think of the pain and intercourse is best when u r compfortable w u self and everything. if u r not ready u will feel pain and u may regret it. and its nothing u can take back.
2007-03-18 17:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by yusuf shahid 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt whatever you do. But there are ways to make the experience more enjoyable- or- to take the sting out of the pain. Get a lot of foreplay before having it. Build up the heat for at leas 3-4 days with foreplay so when the big time comes- you are ready. It's like simmering before getting boiled over. Spread your legs wide so the guy can play well. Also, you need to be really HOT and lubricated.
2007-03-20 05:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Castor221 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably feel some discomfort no matter what but it's fairly short lived and starts to feel good with every thrust. Just make sure you are as relaxed as possible, and make sure your partner takes it nice and slow and when if it hurts to much have him stop and then try again in a few seconds. If you engage in a good dose of foreplay before you actually put it in, you will be wet and things should go rather smoothly. Good Luck.
2007-03-19 00:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex may hurt the first time and many times after that. it often depends on how ready the woman is at the moment of penetration and each partner's anatomy.
if you are a teen and worried about pain, you need to realize that there are more important worries for you -like pregnancy, STD, etc. if you are not ready, just say no.
2007-03-19 00:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are a girl...the major thing to having the least painful intercourse the first time it to make sure that you are very well lubricated...if your hymen is still intact...then you may have more pain, because as the boy pushes his penis in for the first time, this membrane has to tear to allow his penis to enter the vagina...you may or may not have one because of inserting tampons or other things into your vagina..or could have torn it on a bike or horse... (you get the idea)...but make sure that there is enough foreplay...if there is not, you will be dry and he will have a hard time putting his penis in and it will hurt you...
if you are a boy, make sure that she is well lubricated...may sure that her vagina is dripping with fluid to make the insertion of your penis comfortable...you may also want to use som KY jelly to help if you cant seem to make her very wet...please plan on using a condom (be smart and safe) and do not use any vaseline or other lubricants as they can damage condoms and she could get pregnant or your could swap STD's
if you are circumcised then you may not have any pain...but if you are not, make sure that your foreskin will glide easily over the head of your penis (glans)...if is does, then you may be ok...if it does not, then you may have some discomfort as this is necessary for the penis to glide in and out of her vagina easily
good luck
2007-03-19 00:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are no real remedies but you could practice it before using sex toys and lubricants well before that big day. If that's not possible, make sure you are "hot" enough and want it to really happen, no matter what, so that the vagina is well lubricated. Also, spread yourself wide open.
2007-03-19 11:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by papars 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its going to hurt no matter what so dont do it!!!!! at least until you are 30 j/k try to be relaxed and take it slow and make sure the guy understands that stop means stop since you might have to take breathers if he is pushy then you probably shouldnt sleep with him at all
2007-03-19 00:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do to prevent it.. it your gonna have sex for the first time its gonna hurt like hell. Have fun with that..
2007-03-19 00:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by kaisergirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do sex the first time is going to hurt so bad.
2007-03-19 00:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by karen v 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant cuz irs gone hurt etha way it goes thats jus a pain u wont b able 2 avoid unless u stay a virgin
2007-03-19 10:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Princess K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋