When i was 22 (and unmarried), I met a married woman at a bar/ club. She was older, but still relatively attractive and our personalities just clicked. she was out with her friends. seemed to be happy enough about her life, and wasn't outto pick up a guy - she was taken aback by the whole thing.
It turned into a romp in the back seat of her truck.
So i read this article:(http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2005/05/women_who_cheat.html)
6 out of 10 women cheat once in their marriage. Ninety percent of the cheating wives said they suffered absolutely "no guilt" but felt "entitled." That is, women are doing it less because they're missing something at home, but because an oppurtunity worth pursuing arises.
So i'm thinking: my wife goes out with her girlfreinds about once a month, dancing. she's come home on the tipsy side occaisionally. might some dude have slipped it to her? i kind of feel like i deserve it. but really, whats the odds?
2007-03-18 16:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hardly ever, and I have a lot of married female friends....about 1 out of 100, and you can usually tell, they fight all the time at home and complain endlessly about their husband.
2007-03-18 16:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that cant be answered its like when wemon say "all men are dogs" or men saying "all women are bitches" the truth of the matter is a large amount of men and women even if they do not notice date the same "types" of people until unkowingly something clicks and they meet "the right one" for them....
and like the others sai you know your wife better you really can generalize....You really cant say all men are dogs if youve only dated 12 men and your other six freinds dated 6 men... yes thats alot of peole that thats not the entire population of men.... it cantbe said the other way around either... just because she doesnt want to give it up right away or you couldnt read the sighns to act quick enough means nothing.... i think i went off topic bt if some dude "slipped" it to her you should know... you should know by how she acts after you slipped it to her how she would act afterwards but thats not for everone once again it all depends on the perosn
2007-03-18 16:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by panama_man99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that. I go out at night to do business and come home with no doubt about my wherabouts. Honesty is the best policy. Dont over think. Just understand that cheating dont slove any think. I dont think you should worry about it but yes as a husband you can ask her about her honest wherabouts.Let her know that if she ever thinks that if she needs to cheat on you then you can open your back door for her when she comes homes. Its what you want. Some people dont mind. I will.
2007-03-18 17:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is pretty common for women to cheat just like it is for a man. There is really no real reason or good enough excuse to me for cheating ever. They should not even be looking to cheat in my opinion and they should work on their marriage and homelife as well before even thinking about cheating at all. Cheating is never the answer to anything for that matter.
2007-03-18 16:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy a chasity belt - when she asks why say i dont trust you and ur a ho -
all jokin aside just cause u did tht dont mean shes goin to do that
and if she does what can u do ??
We all feel insecure sometimes and it can be really hard to
figure that someone we love would cheat on us - but it does happen
i think u know when things arent right
Is sex still the same or have things changed - better or worse
good luck
2007-03-18 17:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When most women go out with the gal's they do not cheat. Women do not kiss an tell. So if she's going to cheat. She wont do it so that her friends will know.
The odds are she isn't cheating.
BTY most women cheat because their old man is
1. abusive
2.Neglectful
3.Unsupported
4.bad sex
5.revenge
6.anger
7.boredom
8.loneliness
9.low self-esteem
10.just because they are a hoe!
2007-03-18 17:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your wife better than us and you shouldn't generalise about all women. The 6 out of 10 women that cheat are the bitches that you passed up, when you were looking for something better - which is your wife (hopefully :0) )
2007-03-18 16:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men both cheat.
The percentages are slightly less for the women.
Both men and women sometimes feel that if they have an isolated incident and they're not denying their spouse, it shouldn't be a problem.
Until and STD or pregnancy occurs, or it gets to be a habit, or they accidently have a one night stand with a stalker, or.......
2007-03-18 17:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is have an open honest relationship. You need to make sure that you are both happy in your relationship. Make sure that she does not have a reason to want to be with anyone else.
If necessary you can have someone "test" her. If you have the money and real suspicion, hire a PI.
2007-03-18 16:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rocka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenty years and I never cheated once.
But I have read lately that as many women are cheating as men.
The odds might be that she is cheating.
2007-03-18 16:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋