Why most marriages between Filipinas (especially Filipina entertainers known as Japayukis) and Japanese men don't last?
2007-03-18 16:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
Most likely because they were not prepared. I know a friend who got married to a Japanese while working in Okinawa. A couple of years after getting pregnant, he left her. There were misunderstandings between them which is common to any couple in other places. Differences in their origin and culture stress their relationship. Differences in culture also resulted to expectations being frustrated. Oftentimes, moment of regret pervade their consciousness until finally, they call it quits. I guess this is the usual reason for many couples, not only Filipinos and Japanese, but also thosed engaged in mixed marriages.
2007-03-18 16:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage of my cousin, a Filipina nurse with a Japanese Engineer whom she met in Cyprus is on solid ground. They were first married in General Santos City and married again in Kobe in the Japanese tradition.
Rush marriages among Filipina entertainers are seldom founded on love but just for companionship in foreign land.
2007-03-18 21:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by junior 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no marriage without the neccessities of love and trust can ever work and why shud this be any different to others dont assume u havent been used by lady looking for an escape from the life she was leading i dont blame her but do u not have sense enuf to c this
2007-03-18 17:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by ligabdan03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a good number of lasting marriage with these kind of couple.
Failed marriages happen because of misunderstanding and the lack of trust with each other
2007-03-18 19:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just happens to all, not just japayukis to all marriages , they dont have enough love and trust to each others, they are not willing to give and takes for each other differences,
2007-03-19 12:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by lepactodeloupes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe money, third party, sex, or insecurities. Japanese guys are too insecure coz we Filipinas are too sexy. HAHAHA!
2007-03-19 05:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both parties are no longer willing to go on with the marriage...
2007-03-18 20:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Faith's_Fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do not work the same ALL OVER THE WORLD for always the same reasons which would be far too long to print.same answer in your japan section
2007-03-18 21:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by jean marc l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do work. i was amazed at the number of filipinos in japan. the break up of marriages does not necessarily reflect the ethnicity of the couples involved.
2007-03-18 16:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends... there are too many aspects why it didn't work.
Like their difference in cultures, values, beliefs, financially, sexually, religion, & so much more. (--,)
2007-03-18 18:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋