I had a problem b4, then i thought it was solved, but now its worse. My friends r lying to 2 me and not including me in anything. They're always keeping secrets from me and probably talking about me behind their backs. I have other friends in my school but I go 2 a private school where people come from all over so the others live kinda far. My 1 friend is beginning 2 be egotistical and whatever he says goes. My other friends r being 2-faced. They tried 2 make me change myself, like (example) they want me 2 stop drinking at parties (i'm not an alcoholic or anything. I go 2 parties once in a while) because according 2 them "people dont like me." So this weekend was St. Pattys Day and I wanted 2 do something. They all said they werent doing anything and when I was on the phone with 1 of them, he said he was home but it sounded as if he was in a crowd. Now I knew he lied 2 me. In my school, I dont have 2 many close friends, just chill friends. What should I say 2 them cuz i feel alone?
2007-03-18 15:59:48 · 10 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since you say you drink sometimes, Im guessing these friends are not the kind who do. And maybe they want to keep their group of friends as non drinkers.
Its sad that you would choose drinking over your friends which makes me think you drink more than your admitting.
I would advise you to get new friends but youll probably end up with friends who encourage you to drink more.
I say quit the drinking and keep the old friends.
2007-03-18 16:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, sweetheart, you shouldn't be bothered by these guys, since they're not really your friends. friends don't ditch friends because they drink, they try helping them if they have a drinking problem. i don't have many friends that i can just talk to (meaning close friends) but the ones that i do have, they're there for me and i'm there for them. so don't let it bother you, you'll find a close friend that might change your life (in a good way) and focus on something else. pick up a hobby if you dont have one and meet new friends or hang out with those chill friends and they'll become your close friends if you let them.
2007-03-18 19:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a similar issues occurring with me. My buddy went and invited this woman that i don't love in any respect. It replaced into soooo very last minute even if which pisses me off. She's obnoxious and tremendous annoying. i don't be conscious of what to do both. so some distance, I requested yet another woman i'm associates with if she had to come back too. i'm truly in simple terms attempting to get more advantageous people to come back so as that I definitely have others to dangle round with and do not in simple terms could communicate with my buddy and the lady i don't love. So both you should do what I did, or in simple terms flow with individuals.
2016-11-26 21:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ditch friends like that. They are toying with your head for their own comfort. Maybe you should confront one or more of them and ask what is going on, peer pressure usually gets the whole group in on somebody. You need to have friends who will like you for you and not make you feel disrespected and worthless. Don't stick with them just because they are probably popular, because they are really insecure inside to be doing that to you.
2007-03-18 16:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dusk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're friends with them because you feel you only have them when they're obviously not friends. If things don't feel right, you CAN leave. I advise that you do leave them, and tell them you don't feel comfortable around them with no hard feelings. Eventually you'll find your own crowd of friends that will accept you for who you are.
2007-03-18 16:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell them that you are sick of being treated of how they are treating you. In my opinion, you need new friends. True friends wouldnt be walking all over you like they are. However, they dont like how you drink. Talk to them about that. Good luck to you!
2007-03-18 16:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Hipeopleiamhyper! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they've already said it "they don't like you when you drink" Think about it then talk it over with them. Maybe you do need new friends.
2007-03-18 16:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not friends sweetie u need someone who respects u & accepts u for u. You don't need anyone that bad to accept abuse like that to be accepted for temporarily purposes. yes leave them alone they are not true
2007-03-18 16:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
last year some of my friends did that to me
you have to stand up 4 urselfif do not let them WALK ALL OVER YOU
2007-03-18 17:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't stand up for your-self then you'll get walk all over
2007-03-18 16:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋