ok this is so wierd, i have a friend and its a girl we know eachother that we talk but shes quiet and pretty,its wierd cuz its like i have strong feelings for her, but IM NOT GAY AT ALL! and its scaring me! what should i do???? : (
2007-03-18 15:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by bentessa k 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-03-18 16:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes someone can mean so much to us that you feel that odd twinge that makes you think it is sexual...When in reality it is not. I believe it is perfectly normal to be "in love" with a best friend. Afterall they usually share many things in common with you and you thought they were great when you met them. This doesn't mean it has to be a sexual thing. You've just discovered a very deep friendship.
2007-03-18 16:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by clayfeats5 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are acting wierd arround her tell her you love her like a sister, it makes me feel closer to my friends when they say it to me. She might be scared if you told her but she should get over it. I have a friend who likes me like that and she knows I understand. Talk to her about it, it might bring you together more ( as B.F.F.'s). Or it might scare her. it scared me but then I told her that we would always be tight.
I wish you the best!
2007-03-18 16:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by heather. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could be a girl crush. sometimes girls just really admire and look up to other girls they respect. they might idolize them and thats perfectly normal. or maybe she's just a really good friend and you have met someone you can really connect. dont even start confusing yourself. if you know you're not gay, you're not. you just have strong feelings for your friend which is great, you guys will be best friends forever
2007-03-18 16:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by somegirlok 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's not a sign you are are gay. It's just a strong fascination with her because she's different than most people you know. Other than being her friend, and getting to know her, there's nothing TO do.
2007-03-18 16:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by kj 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you mean you are not lesbian? when we grow older, the relationship between us and our friends grow stronger and meaningful compared to the relation when we are younger. it's normal for us to have a strong feeling to your girl friend. if you want to know whether you have a lesbian crush on her or not, try to imagine if you have sex with her. how do feel? disgusting or you like it?
2007-03-18 16:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with it, have a good time and don't look back with regret.
Who knows, it might turn out you were meant for each other.
2007-03-18 16:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
start trying to look more for guys.
You may also be confusing your caring for her as a friend which a sexual attraction. Don't worry to much and don't dwell upon it. It something i think everyone has gone through.
: )
2007-03-18 16:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Leah L 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
do you have sexual feelings for her....there are many ways of having strong feelings for someone.
2007-03-18 16:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with the flow, dont hold back, tell her how you feel and it might develop into something else, then when the two of you are a couple.... call me. =)
2007-03-18 15:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by strezz_up 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
there is nothing wrong with being gay. You should ask her what she thinks about glbt people.
best wishes.
*hug*
2007-03-18 15:59:15 · answer #11 · answered by Adrienne m 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋