my gf will be staying and training with her ex/bf all summer...it has only been 3months since they were forced to break-up and Im sure they still have feelings for each other and now will be working very close together every day that im gone. I know you will say trust is everything and I agree...but mother nature is powerful true...what do you think? I know they wanted to stay friends and they still talk...but I should I expect? Do you think they will get back together?
2007-03-18 15:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, no telling. The good news is that if they are going to get back together, your being there or at home really wouldn't matter.
Forced breakups, by parents, distance, whatever rarely work. It's not distance or they wouldn't be spending all summer together.
Just ask her to be honest with you either way. If she decides to get back with him, tell her you would rather she tell you. Let her know you deserve someone that wants you, not that is with you because she can't be with someone else. Let her know that you want her to be happy, no matter what the outcome, and the only way the 2 of you can remain friends and/or more is with honesty. Yes you care about her and want things to work out between you, but trust IS everything!
When you go back in the fall, please remember that WHAT COULD HAVE HAPPENED, DID!!!
If that means that it does NOT work out between you two, then there is someone better suited to your future you would not be able to find if she stayed.
On the other hand, how great would it be if in the fall yall are still together? You would have such a strong faith that you two can survive anything. That will make the rest of your lives together so much easier! To know when you get laid off, or forget a birthday, or any other stressful situation, that you two have already tested your relationship and passed with flying colors!
Good Luck!
2007-03-18 16:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Fallon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this will certainly be a trying time for you for sure, and by the end of the summer you will know exactly where you stand with her. Personally I don't think it is possible for ex bf/gf to remain just friends. Your best bet is to simply tell her that if she strays with him, she is history. That way she knows what the rules are and the consequences. In the mean time don't worry your little head about it (since you have no control over it) Do stay in steady contact with her so you are on top of things and can detect any mood swings.
2007-03-18 23:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a possibility they will, you don't state the reason for the forced breakup, that probably still holds....there really isn't anything you can do to stop it hopefully the love is gone and you are it, it could happen, have more confidence in yourself and if it goes the other way, be a sport and wish them luck...still many lovely gals out there waiting for a great guy.
2007-03-18 23:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have every right to worry. Now, here's what I think ya should do, keep in contact with her for the whole summer, that is call her at least once a day, I think that her ex would respect her being with ya especially if ya call her and all every day at least once for da summer.
2007-03-18 23:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have to trust her but if she goes back with her exboyfriend you have to accept that fact.It wasn't meant to be with you and you are better off knowing now than later before you get more involved with her.
It's only been 3 months which is not very long.
This will prove if she is meant to be with you. and at least give her a chance to prove herself to you.
Good luck.
2007-03-18 23:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is hope she's trustworthy.
The green eyed monster if he should come out of you, may push her back into his arms. So becareful in going that way.
2007-03-18 23:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not if she is faithful and dedicated to you then nothing will change that but if she is looking to explore greener pastures then you might have a reason to be worried
2007-03-18 22:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i could be wrong, but i think they will experiment, they will see if there's any attraction left for them, i know i am brutally honest, but this is my strong opinion.
2007-03-18 23:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probally will so you might as well say goodbye
2007-03-18 23:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋