There are so many people that hate me, and I never knew why, there was this new girl that walked into the school, and one day I walked past her and smiled and said hi to her, and she rolled her eyes and told everyone that she hated me!!! I felt sad!!! I was in Wal-Mart and walk past someone that I've never even seen and they said, why are you saying hi to me??? And I was like, I'm trying to be nice, and they were like please don't tell me hi because I hate you!!! It made me feel bad! People I don't know, or have never seen hate me. OMG what do I do???
2007-03-18 15:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by ...mp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know this seems WRONG, but maybe you are trying to hard. Some people see the "nice" ones more as victims then as potential friends. Not that you should be mean or rude, just be yourself. If you appear to be needy, that can make you a target for others. As a former mean girl, trust me, I know.
Instead of focusing on negatives around you, focus on the positives. Hang out with the people who DO accept you and ignore the ones who don't. Their loss!
2007-03-18 16:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by anahahamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Hmm this is a tough one... Maybe you are bringing a bad ORA around people that you come in contact with. Maybe its your reputation from the past?!!? anyways it's hard to believe people just hate you for no apparent reason. If you try to meet friends just smile in a NON fake way and talk to them and ask them questions about themselves. Whoever you come in contact with genuinely be interested in them and listen. Hopefully that will help. If no one respects you after that I'd say your in the wrong town.
2007-03-18 15:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that is really weird. I don't really know how to answer this but it sounds like your picking the wrong people to say hi to. I would'nt disrespect anyone like that. These people just sound rude. Weird. Hope it gets better for you.
2007-03-18 15:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Adam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault, if some one hate you without any reason. Its not the matter that you get worried. Always do the right job don't care the world.
2007-03-18 16:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Please 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know let people hate that brings u more goodness in da future dont say hi let them talk trash roll they eyes dont worry bout them sum years later they'll be working for you
2007-03-18 16:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, just try to move on from these bad coincidences (sp?)
2007-03-18 15:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by LemmeSeeYaCardzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋