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ok so have this friend and we have been besties for like 2 years. not to long. but we keep getting in fight all of the sudden and everytime she blames it on me telling me i need to be the bigger person like it is all my fault that i should come crawling back every time we have a fite. well i dont think i need to, i mean i need my space. and she comes over every single day so maybe we have had enough of each other. she just walks in, doesnt evn call. she keeps threatning me saying that she is about to give up on me, which i have heard 1 million times! what to do?

2007-03-18 15:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

7 answers

umm she sounds so dominating. get a new friend. buuut keep her as a friend to, dont be as patient next time, maybe she'll get the message.

2007-03-18 15:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by bii. 1 · 0 0

Seek the source of these fights. What provokes them? Has there been any recent changes in any ones life?

From the sounds of it, it seems like she's trying to sabotage the friendship because she has of a different motive. She wishes to achieve something behind the friendship which makes her have the "power trips." Though you may value her friendship, put it to the test --don't talk to her for awhile. If she threatens you then continue to be intimidated and back away. Let her have no one to refuge to and see where she goes from there. If she wants to speak with you as way to reconcile, that's when you tell her to how you feel about the way she acts and she needs to shapen up if she even values YOUR friendship.

2007-03-18 16:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by cashew 4 · 0 0

Not sure your age but I think you may be young. If you find one just one true friend in your life you will blessed. I have had so many friends come and go over the years who were best friends for the moment. My 1 True friend has been there for me for 15 years through good and bad.

2007-03-18 15:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 0 0

This lady is definitely no buddy of yours. a genuine buddy would not make exciting of you in front of your friends. Her little trick of imitating you and then giggling approximately it shows all of them that that's alright to snigger at you. Going after a guy which you like is her way of exhibiting you that she is better to you. that's no longer the act of a chum. You already say that her strikes are stupid and stressful. in keeping with risk it's time to spend time with people who're no longer stupid and stressful and who truthfully such as you and understand the thank you to be friends.

2016-12-15 03:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

It sounds like she is trying to blame everything she is doing on you. She sounds like not a very good friend to me. You should tell her what shes doing if she is a real friend she will totally understand, but don't tell her these things while your in a fight.

2007-03-18 15:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi S 1 · 0 0

well i had a friend for 30yrs we used fight ,but we were friend till she past away 3yrs ago
so make up and stay friends

2007-03-18 15:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by melanie12354@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0 0

Get better friends.

2007-03-18 15:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jacques 4 · 0 0

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