I havnt been spanked since i was about 10 yrs old. Lately ive been getting into some trouble at school. its cus the teachers r all stupid. Anyway, I kept getting DT and in school suspensions cus Ive been getting in word fights with teachers, but thats because i dont take crap from people. Anyways my mom and dad keep grounding me and stuff. They said obviusly grounding wasnt working so if i keep it up there are gonna be more serious conseqenses. I know wen I was younger that ment a spanking but i didnt think they ment that. Anyways, I got into it with a teacher on fri cus she was rude to me and i called her some stuff i shouldnt have but she deserved, and i got suspended, only this time out of school. My dad spanked me, over my pants just with his hand but still it hurt and its embarasing! and im grounded all damn week that im suspended. School said next time i fight ill be expelled and my dad said i BETTER not.
Im 13, im too old for spankings! How do I get him not to. Oh im a guy btw
2007-03-18 15:32:09 · 25 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I respect my parents lots how is there lack of respect in my writing i just want to live like i should
2007-03-18 15:49:24 · update #1
Tell your dad how you feel.
2007-03-18 16:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
havnt been spanked since i was about 10 yrs old. Lately ive been getting into some trouble at school. its cus the teachers r all stupidAnyway, I kept getting DT and in school suspensions cus Ive been getting in word fights with teachers.....Hmmm well if you would not do those things then I think you would not get a spanking then would you ? Go DAD
2007-03-18 16:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you circumstance but spankings no longer work on my 12 year old son. I have resorted to taking away the computer and games system. He hates that more than anything. Are you learning anything when he spanks you? If you know you are doing wrong stop the behavior now before it escalates. You know right from wrong and you only have to put up with the teachers for a short while. Grow up . If you want to be treated like an adult act like one.
2007-03-18 16:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be spanked, while i replace into 8. it rather is ridiculous to spank a sixteen 12 months old! you are able to desire to have a take a seat talk at the same time with your dad and tell him which you're a youthful woman and it rather is humiliating in a sexual way for him to spank you. make it clean which you do no longer desire him to never floor you, yet spanking merely isn't ok. if that would not artwork, attain out to a distinctive grownup that the two you and your dad have faith. in keeping with risk their advice can help
2016-10-19 01:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says spare the rod and spoil the child!! The people you encounter aren't stupid you are just young and bull headed right now and you don't want to respect others or follow rules I bet!!!! Look not to come down on you but the butt whooping may not help so maybe your dad should do something more harsh to you and send you to boy school for a couple of days so you talk to the kids who wished they hade somebody to spank there azz!!! I mean I think you just sound like a brat and what you should do is calm your nerves before you meet your match!! This is the very reason I passed up the chance to be a teacher because I would grab a youngster up like you with that nasty little attiude of yours and lose my temper!! You have my blood boiling because I no how disrespectful spoil brats like you can be!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-18 16:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well obviously spankings are not working due to the lack of respect in your writing, but then again as most children do i am sure you learned your behavior from your parents. I will say you are lucky your not my child because the first thing i would do is remove your internet access. And you would have alot more to worry about other than getting spanked. The grass is never greener on the other side of the fence.
2007-03-18 15:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad spanked me and my sisters, and we learned we had to behave. You need to learn the same, if he has no reason to spank you, it wont happen. Please straighten up, you dont want to spend your adulthood working in burger king because you cant get into college, due to the way you acted in high school. Even if you apply for college 10 years after you graduate (and it sounds like you will be lucky to get that far) they will look back at your records. Lear how to behave, then dad will learn how to treat you. I am 30 and my dad would still smack me if I deserved it.
2007-03-19 00:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree you are way too old to be doing that childish stupid stuff at school that is making your dad spank you.
Grow up, so your dad can treat you like a young man instead of a little kid.
2007-03-18 16:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you act that way? why have you been acting out lately? or have you always been that way? Listen I acted the same way as you in school (by the way I'm not old only 22) but i did it for a reason, i wanted attention from my parents. if you act like this for a reason figure your crap out and act like a normal person not some spoiled baby. you obviously need to stay in school, for one you need grammar help and second its the law. about spanking that sucks but what do you think would help? is there anything or will you always be this way? you sound like a good kid just need some help. like i said try to figure out why you fight and act shitty, try acting like a normal person, and maybe he wont spank you. maybe your teachers are rude to you because of the way you act, teachers are only people, why should they sit and take your crap? they arent put there to listen to you act stupid, they are there to teach you crap you dont already know but will need when you grow up(p.s you dont know everything) dont give them crap and you wont get crap, your never going to get anywhere acting like that.
Live like I should. What the hell does that mean.? Maybe you should act like you should.. do you think adults like that that? dude GROW UP!!!
2007-03-18 15:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by eyva0604 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are right that you are too old to be spanked, you also are old enough to know that your behviour is wrong and you keep on misbehaving and disrespecting your teachers and parents.
If you want to be treated like you think you should be treated well start acting your age and behaving yourself. School is very important and obviously your parents are ones that care and are looking to discipline you for unnacceptable behaviour.
You need to tell your Dad you are going to behave and he will not need to spank you like a little boy anymore, see what happens?
2007-03-18 15:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
If you act like a three year old than why shouldn't you be spanked like one. You need to learn some respect young man, for yourself and for those who care about you! The sooner you learn that taking peoples **** is part of life I think that's when you will drop this whole attitude. Keep it up and your gonna end up behind bars guaranteed, and that's where your gonna learn about respect unfortunately
2007-03-18 15:56:34 · answer #11 · answered by Ryan V 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋