One of my friends cousin apparently made a death threat to me saying that he will bring his gang to my house to destroy my house. Later on, my friend said "I guess we ain't friends no more cause my stupid cousin". Then he said " so you don't like me no more because my parents don't like you?" Before his cousin made a death threat to me, he told me his parents don't like me and disapprove of me which is unreasonable. He doesn't want to let me in to his house. Since then, my parents found out about this conversation and now made the matter even by not letting my friend into my house. Later on, my friend made a reply to me saying "your parents hate me? tell me honestly and well don't even bother cause I know you are lying because of how my parents feel about you." I'm not the person who made these comments saying I cannot be friends with him. Now he blocked me on AIM. He spoke to me on AIM. What would you do if your friend had this behavior, against you , doesnt want to know the truth?
2007-03-18 15:16:46 · 4 answers · asked by saikojay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know what I should do about him, because he is actually a friend that I knew the longest... Plus, now it's like he built a wall that's blocking my way to reach him. One day he's good with me and then the next day he doesn't even want to know the truth or maybe he can't handle the truth... I actually wonder why he blocked me on AIM. It's almost like he can do whatever he pleases and I can't. What should be done about him ?
2007-03-18 16:04:09 · update #1
Get a girlfriend, go to a movie.
2007-03-26 14:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend's parents really are putting pressure on him to not talk to you.
That is unfair. You should try and talk to him.
It seems like he's upset with you about something. Or maybe he is being defensive because he thinks he has done something wrong.
He might be feeling sort of guilty about what his cousin said, and what his parents said.... like he doesn't want to give you a chance to get mad at him.... so he's blocking you.
If I were you and really cared about this relationship I would straight up confront him. Not give him a chance to back out....
Don't yell at him because that'll just make it worse...
But try and remind him of all the good stuff... and tell him you don't care about all this stupid stuff like his cousin and his parents... you just want to be friends.
2007-03-26 21:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is afraid because of his cousin and the gang. He is doing what he thinks he has to do, to be safe. I don't know what started this problem with you and the cousin, but i think it's best that you stay away from all of the people involved. your friend has shown that he is not your true friend, and you need to find new friends.
2007-03-26 21:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He or she wouldn't be my friend.I'd simply pretend I've never met him or her before...
2007-03-18 22:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by ffffffer123456 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋