2007-03-18 15:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by motoxmexican 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Girl if you don't pick up a book and educate yourself instead of being simple minded I would like to whoop you myself!!! Why in the world are you wanting something like that to happen and just to let you know which I'm sure you do birth control is to prevent pregnancy not stds or aids so what is the purpose in you protecting yourself against getting knocked up yet you opening up for aidsand other things. You sound like alittle flip and fast girl that needs a stiff boot up your azz and good for you I am not the one to give it to you. This very thing is what's wrong with the world now that,s why you have girls out there like you having babies and dieing from aids.. be smart and use your common sense because truthfully you shouldn't be having sex right now anyway!! I hope all of the other people reading this crap gives you some good sound advice and not add to the coming of your demise if you don't get some common sense knocked into that rock that you call a brain!!!!!!!
2007-03-18 16:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about you re-evaluate your life.
Don't have sex. After you are married is the safest time.
You don't need a baby or an STD right now. Birth control does nothing to help you either way.
If you wish to get an STD or become a mother at this age, then be my guest.
It's called hedonism, dear. Hedonism is pleasure for simply the purpose of pleasure. The only reason you have sex is for your own pleasure right now. There is no other reason for it. So why do it? The simple fact: you shouldn't. It's the last thing you need during adolescence.
Oh, and another thing. If you are on birth control, your parents know about it, right? So why not ask them this question? How does that make you feel? Embarrassed? Well, if you are so embarrassed about that, why have sex in the first place?
Bottom line: Sex before marriage is not the right choice. It screws with relationships. Once you start having sex, a physical bond forms. The sex is good, so even if he beats you, you don't want to leave him. Wait until you know you are going to stay with someone the rest of your life and want to have children with them to have sex. Wait until you are married.
I agree with some early posts on this. You need a boot up your azz for having sex before marriage.
2007-03-18 16:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Artemis 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You ovulate 14 days after your period. The birth controle pill is not 100% accurate, trust me. So before 14 days. Your ovulation last about 3 days.
2007-03-18 16:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
never. birth control pill is only 99% effective. and if you happen to forget one you will still ovulate that month. all it takes is for you to forget and theres a baby. there is no safe time. use a condom as well, the withdrawall method itsn't the safest.
2007-03-18 16:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Louise 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Jazzie and Artemis on this one. It's time for you to take a good, hard look in the mirror. After you get an STD and have your first child, ask yourself if it was worth it. Heck, why wait? Ask yourself now. Is 10 minutes of pleasure worth damaging your health and possibly destroying your life?
You do, with all seriousness, need a boot up your azz.
2007-03-18 16:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never a safe time birth control only works 99% of time. Use a condom when you decide to do that just to be safe. ps still can get STD
2007-03-18 16:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by eyva0604 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
birthcontrol is not 100% effective so no time is a safe time if u dont want to be pregnant
2007-03-18 15:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by army_wife_9 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
anytime you want.....you are on birth control so you cant get pregnant......all you have to worry about is stds....but if you are both clean then do it anytime you want.....:))
well and to everyone who is so pissed off that i said you cant get pregnant on the pill.....duhhhh i know that it is only like 99% effective that is if you use it correctly.....i have been on the pill for more than 10 years and i have had countless men *** in me and i NEVER got pregnant....my finance and i have sex 3 or more times a week for the past two years and he cums in me all the time and i never got pregnant.........my daughter was a planned pregnancy and i have never gotten pregnant on the pill.....and NO you dont have to be married to have sex.......that is a big pile of ****....i hate that crap about only sex after marriage if everyone did that hardly any of us would be here.....sex is good no matter when you have it as long as it is with the right person.
2007-03-18 15:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why would you even want him to if you can avoid it?
You can get pregnant on birth control, it happens and is not uncommon or unheard of. It just decreases the chances.
2007-03-18 17:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually you CAN get pregnant with birth control. I have an 11 year old to prove it. You can also get an STD. So safe sex is no sex.
2007-03-18 15:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋