Lately ive been having intrusive repeated thoughts that i DOnt want Im very happily married and My hubby is the Best. But im having brief sexual perverted thoughts and questions constantly running through my mind. I feel so guilty for having them especially during the wrong time(our love time). Im not fantasizing just questions/thoughts. Its so bad it makes me cry. I love my hubby. 2nd Ex:I;ll ask myself... would i cheat? Would i flirt? Does anyone relate to this?
2007-03-18 14:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by gchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont fantasize. I just ask myself questions..like would I do this or that? And ill say to myself I hope i never have the urge/or weakness to want to do anything cuz just thinking of losing my husband makes me sick to my stomach!!
2007-03-18 15:12:11 · update #1
My husband is Great In every Aspect Especially in bed!! Im very happy with him...i feel guilty even if think a guy might be attractive. We've been married a year.
2007-03-18 15:15:22 · update #2
Thoughts and actions are two different things. People would be lying if they didnt think about stuff like that don't worry honey it's normal.
2007-03-18 15:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by kindanswersplease 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with VIRGO. he's great in something else... not in all aspects ...have a talk with him...Bout cheating. it's possible you will yes... but its too early in your relationship for cheating...been married only a year? Sexual fantasies are just that...fantasies.. maybe your hubby could fulfill yours... but if youre thinkin of another man then you must have done something (like chatting, meeting someone online. et al.) that you've met some guy thats why you've been having these thoughts bout "might" "could" be cheating/flirting... i've been there....believe me;). Good thing i've coped before ive done some real damage...(im happily seperated right now hehe...)..lots of women can relate undoubtly ..these feelings of yours are hard to express in words though as well as hard to answer in words too.
2007-03-18 15:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by chronically Rejected 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words - your hubby is great - but not exactly where you want him to be 'great'. Ever think he might have the same thoughts? Maybe he is noticing changes in your behavior and this is affecting him as well.....time you two have a little talk, don't you think?
2007-03-18 15:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thoughts are one thing, actions are another. You may be having some sexual fantasies but as long as you are remaining faithful to your spouse I wouldn't be too concerned. Maybe you just need to add a little more spice to your love making. It certainly cannot hurt to explore a little more with each other.
2007-03-18 15:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are your thoughts about your hubby? If so, tell him, it might make him more excited. Thoughts are just that, thoughts. If you love your husband and are happy with them, they will stay thoughts. Unless of course, the 2 of you act them out!
2007-03-18 15:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book called the battlefield of the mind by Joyce Myers, very helpful....Jesus loves you
2007-03-18 15:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put an Exlax in each ear.This should get rid of all that crazy $hit in your head.
2007-03-18 15:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are suffering from bad character.
Expect more of yourself.
Remember, "What you think about; you will do. What you do; you will become."
Do you want to become a doubtful guilty cheating pervert?
Elevate your thoughts and goals!
2007-03-18 15:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by kitchenheatindex 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
mabye u have that OCD disorder and you are having these obsessive thoughts and freaking yourswelf out. stop wrorying about them or it will make them worse.
2007-03-18 15:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need more fantasy or role-playing in your sex life.
2007-03-18 17:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋