my friend of 2o years always like to talk to me about her sex partner and what they do in bed then she trys to ask me what me and my sex partner do in bed.I do not let her know what we do in bed then she get mad and say I let you know what we do.She always talking about sex and how he can lick and how big it is .It makes me think that she would like to sleep with my sex partner.
2007-03-18 14:44:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friend or frrreak?
2007-03-18 14:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by kevin k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't talk about that kind of thing either its personal and that is the way it is if she don't like it too bad tell her its on a need to know basis and she don't need to know, i feel that what my partner and i do is between us and just us, she probably doesn't want to sleep with him she just wants to compare and its none of her business and by all means tell her so.
2007-03-18 21:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who goes into graphic detail, like your friend, is possibly making some of it up. Tell her to mind her own business, your sex life is between you and your partner, no one else. If you decided to tell her what goes on, she might bring it up in conversation, when your partner is there...who would be horrified.
2007-03-18 21:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend wants to talk about her sex life, that's her choice. but it's not a quid pro quo kind of thing -- just because she tells doesn't mean you have to tell too. talk to your friend of twenty years. tell her that although she feels comfortable talking about sex, you don't.
i don't necessarily think she wants to sleep with your partner. some people just revel in these kinds of details. others don't. no one is better or worse for it. it's just a matter of preference.
2007-03-18 21:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by Delores on the dotted line 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question is?
If it makes you feel uncomfortable, tell her so. She isn't going to get mad, or at least she shouldn't. When she brings it up next time, just say "I don't feel comfortable talking about this...what did you do at work yesterday?" That will give her the hint.
2007-03-18 21:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by OwNaGeR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my best friend never asks that crap. but it does depend on how you guys talk regularly, she may have no one to compare her sex life to and wonders if what she does is "normal".
tell her you don't wanna talk about it and laugh it off, she'll stop eventually.
2007-03-18 21:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be asking for advice purposes, if your uncomfortable sharing with her just tell her, when she says "I tell you about my sex life" reply by telling her that she offers it to you, you don't ask.
2007-03-18 21:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sick...obviously she is an exhibitionist....tell her you don't want to hear her nasty details...I think I would get a different friend if she can't respect private boundaries.
2007-03-18 21:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that sex is something that you keep private between you and your partner. tell her it is nothing to disrect her, just ask her nicely to not ask private questions.
2007-03-18 21:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does.Now, why aint you married young lady?
2007-03-18 22:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋