I attend an 'honors school' , take test and barely do any work. I mange to get Aor B's in class though I failed the college courses.
At lunch I just play cards or do nothing
After school I logg onto the internet to play an online game from 3pm-5pm
around that time (5pm) i go to a track near my home and run/jog about 1 mil a day (weekdays only)
after that i get home and get on my computer again unil i far asleep.
I usually rush and do my work before class or the last day before it's due if it's a project.
I don't really talk to my friends outside of school and I almost never talk to any girls ...
I think i wanto to change this but i dont' see how ..i just think i'm a loser
2007-03-18 14:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by Jerry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you "have everything" but need more fulfillment. Since you are obviously a bright student, could you use that talent to help others?? You could volunteer to tutor elementary students, teach a technology class to the elderly, and so forth.
The first step I would make is to get your work done on time. (Lots of gifted students do this because they can; I used to do it a lot. It's a very hard habit to break.)
Then focus on getting stimulus in other ways. If you can get a copy of it, read "A Whole New Mind" by Dan Pink to get some ideas on how to expand your thinking and creativity. You just might discover some hidden talent. (Once I began playing the violin, that seemed to get me out of my rut.)
Best of luck,
Mon :-)
BTW, you are NOT a loser! You wouldn't belive how many others would love to be in your shoes.
2007-03-18 15:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by santan_cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser you are not bored perhaps or even lonely. How can life get better if you don;t make things better yourself?
How can you endure what it's like to understand the down falls of life and the Sun of shiny days ahead if you haven't experienced the darkest before the dawn.
Your life is going to move, but make it move and you will do fine.
2007-03-18 14:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one is it you that is not happy with your life style or did someone comment on it.cause like you said you want to change it but dont know how.I f there is something you would like to try then take a lesson or two to see if you like it sometimes you can get lessons in something for free for the first few times.or maybe you are depressed and are not sure what you want out of sadness so what ever it is do it eve n if its to get help so you can move on gl
2007-03-18 14:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by roncj88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You just need to expand your social life. Spend more time with your friends, and just have fun with your life. Don't stay on the computer all day.
2007-03-18 14:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok cut back on comp time and start socializing use land spend more time using pick up lines on girls lol!
2007-03-18 14:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tigeress12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a loser. you are just emo.
2007-03-18 14:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by EL LITTLE JOKER. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah dont feel to bad !!! (:
2007-03-18 14:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by roxy babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋