OK. So here's the deal: My friends are keeping a BIG secret from me and it's not a good one either. (If you want to find out more, look at my question labeled "Do you think what they're doing is right?") So there was this play a couple of days ago and they were saying that they have a secret but they can't tell me. So later they said that the secret is tha the guy I like is moving to Arizona so I got really sad and I like almost started crying. Then I went to the bathroom to freshen up. So they started talking and they said that they asked the guy and he said that he is not moving because the parents were not taking a job there. So then I was ok but I never heard them talk to him. So then a couple hours ago, I went to one of my friends birthday party where they said that it was a coverup that my crush was moving. I wasn't supposed to hear that though. So they really hurt my feelings by not telling me and making me sad because he was suppoatley moving.do you think its right wat they did
2007-03-18 14:36:03 · 4 answers · asked by catfight_007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Heck no they dont sound like very good friend.. a best friend would tell you that right away and not crush your feelings like that!
2007-03-18 14:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tigeress12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wasnt right that they did that. Maybe they were just trying to help you by trying to make you not cry. They probably didnt want to see you cry. I know what your going throguh. only it was one of friends that completely lied to me and she did it intentionallly. It hurt me that she would even lie to me about everything!!! It hurts to be lied to. I cant stand the feeling b/c now we arent talking...but she is just giving me some time and space to think about what she did to me and my other friends. Hope this helped.
2007-03-18 21:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why care what secret they have? If they want to tell you they will. that secret is being use to control youand your emotions. Personally I don't think real friends do that to people that they care about.
2007-03-18 21:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by cilverpenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude thats tot retarded....tell them how you feel..say "look heres how its going down,what youre doing is hurting me. id really like to know what youre keeping from me....if you still wont tell me when its hurting me this bad then i guess we're not as close as i thought we were" then you walk away. they'll come around. : )
2007-03-18 22:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋