IF you had sex with a guy a couple of times and then found out that he denied just to be with your best friend, and then your best friend didn't believe you did anything and dated him would you stay her friend or leave her in the dust?
2007-03-18 14:15:28 · 14 answers · asked by bratttykat_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you must not value her friendship
never ever ditch a chick for a dick
ever.
2007-03-18 14:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Almost identical with my situation, but in a guy's point of view... There was a girl i used to love so much.. We became lovers and did what lovers do... But just this march 2007, after more than two years of relationship, we broke up, she's in love with someone else.. I choose not to let him know of our past, for the reasons I might hurt her, and him (the new guy).. Could be my foolishness, but I realized there's no good will come out of it if I try to let him know... I want to move on, so it's best not to linger in those memories...
Since you are a girl, I don't know if this would be a good decision for you, we guys can never tell... But it would be best to find new friends, and probably a new love... But don't rush things, it won't happen overnight... I'm going through a lot of changes after that break up, and I'm guessing it'll take months for me to completely put those things behind...
Hope I can help with this answer..
2007-03-18 21:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by nine sephirothic ways 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's insecure and needs a man so bad she's willing to crap on anyone to get one.
Dump her.
If she won't believe her best friend over a guy, she's not going to be that great of a friend in other tough situations. Plus, who wants a loser for a friend?
2007-03-18 21:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Brntte3078 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will do anything to get that sex,,,, nothing is as important to them as a hard-on. You friend is the one being deceived,,, so I would wait until he leaves her, tell her I told ya so,,,, then have a good laugh about it,,,, then make up bad notes about him and sex,,,, compare them then spread them around to make this boy realize that he is not as cool as he thinks.
2007-03-18 21:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "best friend" belives the guy over you, then clearly there is some missing trust there. talk to her about it, and if she still just wont belive you then i would move on from her. but if you are too hurt by what she did to even consider it, then just move on.
2007-03-18 21:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by pinkgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend would be putting the guy before you. Friends are suppose to put guys 2nd. She didn't believe because she didn't want to.
2007-03-18 21:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay with her because she is your friend and friends will stay with you while guys just play you and break your heart....hope this helped!!!
2007-03-18 21:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a 3 party talk...
2007-03-18 21:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like she wants to be with someone, if she dont believe you, she dont trust you, but shes still your friend, you cant expect a utopian world between u
2007-03-18 21:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ash4ElishaCuthbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a better class of men to doink!
2007-03-18 21:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Dave O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit back and watch it unwind, and cause i would be a better friend than she was to me, i would be there to catch her when she falls, causes you know she will fall,
2007-03-18 21:19:16 · answer #11 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋