For men, attraction is heavily physical, more then personality. However, that doesn't mean we don't care about personality. Guys can want to have sex with girls they hate, but they're unlikely to want to date those girls. We tend to want to be with women who we both find attractive _and_ like.
For women, its more complicated. Their attraction is based on physical and on personality - but not necessarily the personality they like. They _also_ prefer to be with men that they like, but for them its more of a three part dance - attracted to how he looks, attracted to his personality, and like his personality (not the same thing!).
As to what is attractive in a girl's body, its the things that make her different from a man. The curves - all of them. Even on a thin girl, that curve between waist and hips, the curve of the butt, the shape of her legs, her thin neck. Full lips, smouldering eyes and nice hair go a long way too.
2007-03-19 09:03:15
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answered by kheserthorpe 7
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I agree with metal head. But everybodies different I suppose. I personaly like girls who are more on the quiet side but not too timid. Not afraid to take risks but go about it in a cute way with smiles and warm guestures. When I say quiet I dont mean it to literally though, just a nice person who is willing to get to know you. Also if a girl is too quiet and does not seem to recepricate much, then the guy who is going for her might back off. This is cause most guys that are looking for girls like this are somewhat similar and dont act like a so called player. On the physical side of course men like women who are in shape and look good, but dont ever kid yourself that personality is not important at all. Because it is! hope I helped a little bit.
2007-03-18 21:22:25
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answered by T 2
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Physical attraction and that can be a variety of aspects depending on individual choices. The personality is the number one issue and should prevail over any body attraction!
2007-03-18 21:57:44
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answered by Anonymous
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This all depends, its different things for different girls. Me truthfully eyes have alot to do with what attracts me. And as far as personality, confidence, feeling comfortable with yourself is a good thing to have.
2007-03-18 21:28:41
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answered by Tim1983 1
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she has to be funny, fun, smart, laidback, and able to hold a conversation. body wise i think the legs eyes and hair i love dark hair and curily or straight or it really doesn't matter if they are nice and smart and all that cuse it is really what's inside that matters she could be the most beautiful girl in the world but be a jerk and that makes her the ugliest woman in the world hope that helped
2007-03-18 21:21:20
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answered by yo 2
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well it all depends on how the guy thinks.. & how the girl reacts their different feeling a person has for ppl.. as u know.. or might know that you would react in a different way with ur parents then with friends .. well same way the attitude changes, the way the guy behaves changes.. caz wat we are looking for is to impress the girl.. with many factors,, physical strength, intelligence, attitude, & self conduct.. so decide yourself on how you a guy thinking for you.. caz we guys do is study the girls & react accordingly to get noticed.. the big thing is about "getting noticed" .. so its complicated its not that simple!!
2007-03-18 21:19:56
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answered by chirayu1990 2
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Beauty if fleeting while intelligence is lasting. Once the physical attraction begins to wain there had better be more to the relationship for it to last.
2007-03-18 21:15:44
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answered by iraq51 7
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Body gets physical stimulation and personality gets mental stimulation.
2007-03-18 21:10:39
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answered by Rajat B 2
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i personally like girls who are shy and have girlish chracters.. not girls who keep shouting... and yelling and act like males, and physically i like a girl with long straight hair......
2007-03-18 21:15:19
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answered by metal_head_lars 1
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JUST A TIGHT WET HOT **** THATS ALL HONESTLY... OH AND GIVE IT UP 5 TIMES A DAY OR MORE...
2007-03-18 22:43:23
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answered by Anonymous
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