Even if you know she still wouldnt leave him and it would REALLY kill her inside?
2007-03-18 13:58:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HUH.... yessssssss I would tell her.... why wouldnt she leave him? is she that insecure to allow HIM to cheat andddddd have a child with another woman... he has to pay child support... she needs a guy that wouldnt cheat on her and will respect her.... i know it will hurt her.... butttt she does need to know.... it will hurt me more if I known my friend lied to me or kept a secret from me that would kill me more....
2007-03-18 14:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you should tell her. You are her friend! Look up the definition of a true friend. TRUE is the key word. You will have to tell her many things that may break her heart but she will love you in the end for letting her know. That's what friends are for. do the right thing girl!!!!
2007-03-18 14:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a real friend I think you should tell her. If she found out from an outside source years later, she would feel worse for being the last to know when one of her friends knew all along!
2007-03-18 14:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by crenshawchica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't always pay to be the bearer of bad news, let her find out from someone else and you be the shoulder she cries on, that may help to seal your friendship for life.
2007-03-18 14:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Straight-Up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that she needs to confront him and ask him was up with that my boyfriend at 12 got another gril pregnant at age 14 he was 2 years older and i dumped him for it because he was dating me and another girl at the same time.so tell her
2007-03-18 14:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by angel qubeca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I added yah to my 360 friends list hehe but Yah you need to tell her if for nothing more than when that kid grows up they deserve to know who they're father is so Yes!
2007-03-18 14:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that it's not your place to interfere in their relationship. don't say anything right now. let the situation take its own course, and if you can, tell the guy that you know, and that he can tell her, or you're going to. its his job to man up on this kind of thing. only after you've given him a chance to make it right can you step in for your friend's sake.
2007-03-18 14:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would it's her decision on what she does with the information just be there for her if she needs it or wants it..all the best to her.obviously he doesn't deserve her..
2007-03-18 14:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her myself but I'd make sure she found out somehow.
Remember...no good deed goes unpunished.
2007-03-18 14:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would. At least you tried to help her see what shes getting into.
2007-03-18 14:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋