I'm talking 'bout Gentleman with a capital G.
ain't playing...
The last thing I wanna do is make my Ex-girlfriends wanna eat me alive with Tabasco sauce..
2007-03-18 13:48:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Chingcha..I'd rather be eaten with Tobasco sauce on top..thanks..
2007-03-18 13:58:27 · update #1
Don't cheat on her and don't date one of her friends or really, anyone she knows.
Besides that, be honest with her and if you're not that into her, and she's into you, don't keep her around just because you kinda like her. end it earlier - she'll just get more attached. and NO post-breakup sex/making out/sad goodbye kisses. Gives hope.
And I always hated the "it's me" approach. She knows that isn't true!!! Just tell the girl you just aren't in love with her, and if it's because you disagree on something or she does something that bugs you, tell her that too!
But mostly, if she's really into you and you break it off, she's going to get upset. I find myself going though a very similar rejection ritual covering sadness-anger-dismissal every time a relationship ends - no matter how the guy did it. But if you're honest about it and she can deal, at some point, you'll be cool.
2007-03-18 13:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ex girlfriendS? well anyway if a player like you finally got around to realizing he's gone as far as i will will allow him to go without real commitment, I think I would like him to be real, and as honest as he could be with consideration to my feelings. So something like, "You are really hot and I have enjoyed every moment we have spent together. The truth is I know you want more than I can give you at this time in my life. I never want to do anything to hurt you or make you think less of me. I hope you will still be my friend but if not I understand. I just know at this time I DEFINITELY am not boyfriend/husband material." Good news for you: A lot of women would see this as a challenge and use lots of sex to prove how desirable, sexy, and cunning they are. So you get to reap all the benefits of guilt free, stringless, and seductive 'jump off' sex because in the end you can always say with a smile, " Hey Babe I told you straight up and honest from the start." End of drama
2007-03-18 14:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Meems 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course she will be hurt no matter how you do it, but be as honest as you can without insulting her. Maybe say you're moving and can't handle long distance relationships? Can you actually move? That would be a good way, then it's no ones fault really. Or if you're in school/work, it's too hard to balance the relationship and the school/work. Or just that you need time for yourself. You're not digging the relationship thing anymore and feel you need some space. Anyway, good luck.
2007-03-18 13:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Caramella 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her in person alone tell her to meet you (with her own transportation so that there isn't the long awkward silence while you're dropping her off or so that she doesn't have to walk home!) Tell her that you have realized a few things about yourself one of those things being that you aren't ready to be in a relationship and that she deserves someone who is going to be available to her in ways that you aren't. Tell her that she is a great person (even if she's a skank bag) and that you'd only be holding her back from something better and more meaningful! That should do it.
2007-03-18 14:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by kalypsokitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds like a cliche' but just tell her that you need some time apart to do a little soul searching. Regardless how you do it, she will still be hurt. And who knows maybe after the 2 or you have been apart for a while you might find that you really do want to be with her or maybe she'll find that she don't want you either.
2007-03-18 13:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest but not too honest. Don't say anything that's a lie, but don't tell her something that's hurtful. And don't try to say "It's not you, it's me." That is so old. So -- you say you just don't feel that this relationship is working for you or that you want to date other people -- it's honest. Tell her some positive things about her -- what you like about her -- and assure her that she deserves a wonderful relationship but you're just not the right person for her.
2007-03-18 13:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Corinnique 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really no way is a good way, anyway you do it, it's gonna hurt but to just tell her things are going as you had hoped so lets end it before we get anymore involved would probably be the best.
2007-03-18 13:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kinda like Ruby you know how much I care about you and always will. Thats
why you should not be in a realtionship with me--you deserve more then me. I am not 100% into this relationship and it's not fair to you. You deserve more than I can give you. I think you should find yourself someone you deserve.
2007-03-18 14:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very gentle...but I think you already are a kind and warm gentleman....tell her like it is, tell her you are not happy. Even so, if you took that approach she could still feed you to the lions especially if she is a very sensitive lady.
Good luck
2007-03-18 13:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋