my mom thinks i will be just lik them but all i wanna do with a boy is kiss them and hold hands not have sex. i dont even think the boys i like think that do they? help!! you can emaild me your messages of complaint.
2007-03-18 13:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Sizzl3 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well im 13 but i am like omg. i thought about wat it would be like and i decided that it would be just too weird. i mean im 13 and the boys are still scrawny and somwat small.
2007-03-18 13:55:16 · update #1
i still dont get why most ppl say that once a boy and girl are alone that is all they think about.i would be like ok now none of our friends can tease us. not like the boy is gonna roll on the floor with the girl and have sex with her right then and there.
2007-03-18 13:58:40 · update #2
everybodys gotta message me l8r.
2007-03-18 14:03:49 · update #3
heh, yes boys even at the start of age 9 are thinking about sex, so do not be surprised. Sure, you want to cuddle and all, and that is great, but your parents will worry no matter what? I can guess you're around 13 or 14 yourself, and I appolgize if I am off, but it is not impossible for you to become another teenage mother, but you can prevent that by being abstinent, and if worst-case sceneario, use birth control, and have them use condoms. If your parents are going to worry, have them put you on the pill. SInce you say you are not sexually active though, I would tell them how you feel, and tell your boyfriend if you have one you are not ready for sex.
2007-03-18 13:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by paul86192006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are 13 i dont think there is any reason why you should be alone with a boy. i am glad you only want to kiss and hold hands, and that maybe all that you will do right now. but you may still be a little young, just be patient, your parents are just looking out for you
2007-03-18 14:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by brittany d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of depends on how old you are. I mean there is a big difference between being 14 and doing boyfriend/ girlfriend things. And being 17 and being with a guy. I think you should add more details to you question so you can get a better answer.
2007-03-18 13:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most moms think that kissing leads to things that lead to sex. And I don't know how young you are but she may think that you may have sex just because he wants to, maybe so he will stay with you, and it won't be because you are mature enough to handle the consequences. Or she may not want to raise another child.
2007-03-18 13:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by blj2112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just in case that kissing and hand-holding turns into something "more involved," make sure you have 23 cents more for a condom!
2007-03-18 13:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by njmarknj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..... well i'm not a guy but i think some guys do think that way...... at least from what i have heard (i'm 13 in 7th grade) they dont have the purist thoughts...... and i go to a christian school.......
2007-03-18 14:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn;t tell us what you think of pregnant teens
2007-03-18 13:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋