Shall I leave her.? or just get a side program with someone else and keep my home life happy?
2007-03-18 13:37:46 · 24 answers · asked by guy2598us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buddy, I've been there, your better off leaving her and finding somebody who does enjoy it. Cheating is not the answer.
2007-03-18 13:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
The fact that you place such a high priority on oral sex instead of the whole relationship then you probably be doing HER a favor by moving on.
It seems that you rather or find it easier to pose this question on a public chat rather than discussing it with her, gives me another clue.
Is it that she doesn't like oral sex, in general or with you? If in general you should have gotten this information from her before you even got to the bedroom. If it is you then either way accept it and move on.
2007-03-18 21:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by GERALD S. MCSEE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can someone else who isn't your home keep your home life happy? If your girlfriend does not want to engage in oral sexual activity, you should decide if that is enough to make you want to leave her, and if you stay, don't complain about what you aren't getting, but rather be happy with what you are getting.
2007-03-18 21:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the only thing you are concerned about in your relationship then you deserve to be single and lonely
never consider doing anything on the side that is cheating.
Leave and tell her you are a pig and need time to get over some stupid crap tell her to get a real man.
2007-03-18 20:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a better question to ask why doesn't she like it. Is it because the act itself grosses her out or is it because your member smells and tastes like piss and she gets pubes in her mouth all the time which make her gag... You also have to ask her if it has anything to do with cumming in her mouth. If it is just that she doesn't like it because of the fact you piss out of your member then don't leave her and clean it more... Our try something like perhaps mutual masturbation.
2007-03-19 00:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by guylookin4fun06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you just don't know what your doing. And going by your side program thought, I think I'm right to think your an A+ Loser.
2007-03-18 20:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by trojan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Giving it to you or getting it from you?
If Oral is the biggest thing for you do not cheat, tell her how you feel.
If you must cheat leave.
2007-03-18 20:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Vultureman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because she won't give you oral sex your wanting to cheat???
My God, grow up, there is alot more to life than sex. My wife doesn't like oral sex, but that's no reason to leave her and deffinatly no reason to cheat. If she don't like it then I just go without it. Because if you push her about it, it's going to upset her more, and then there may be no chance of her ever doing that for you even though she doesn't like it.
I think you seriously need to grow up and show your girlfriend more respect. Besides, sex should wait till after your married, not before.
2007-03-18 20:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had a girlfriend once that does not give oral. I stuck with her and we do other things to compensate. Either you can live without it or it's time to move on.
2007-03-18 20:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and then go form there if you can not resolve this by TALKING TO HER then move on never try to get a side program.
2007-03-18 20:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's only your girlfriend, yes you certainly can move on...but perhaps communicating with her and working out a system that benefits both of you would be the more heartfelt choice.
2007-03-18 20:42:36 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋