Divorce?!?

Question

My parents are getting divorced.... [im stressing!] TIPS?!

Answer 1

Always remember, the divorce was not over you. Second, always refuse to be the messenger between both parents because it can get pretty hurtful at times. Third, it is all right to love both parents equally. Fourth, have your parents find a support group for kids who's parents have seperated or divorced because most know where you are coming from and can give advice. Finally, treasure your moments with each parent.

Answer 2

that a terrible thing for anyone to have to face, my advise is don,t take sides with either . express how hurt you are to both of them , and tell them you love them no matter what, I'm very sorry that this has happen to your family, and i hope God helps you cope with this divorce that you,re parent are fixing to do.. parent don't understand just how getting a divorce hurt and disturbs children, i do know how you must feel. and you have my prayers that God will somehow help you get threw this ..I'm sorry i cannot be more help. keep a stiff upper lip and try and be strong within your heart.. this is something that you cannot help nor did you cause this either, it,s between your parents not you OK ..i feel sorry for your hurt and hope you can get a handle on things and not be so stressed out..

Answer 3

Oh I am sorry to hear that, depending on your age, you may be shuffled around between them, all you can do right now is remember that both of your parents love you very much and this is not your fault, no matter what happens between them, they are still your mom and dad and that relationship will not change,

Answer 4

I'm sorry your mother is a jew

Answer 5

awe....well, just remember they both love you very much and will continue to love you; none of it is your fault, it is between the two of them; don't allow yourself to get caught up in the middle between them, you love them both.....relax and let them work it out; your love for them and their love for you hasn't changed.