2007-03-18 13:25:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They're "intriguing" because you see them when they're on their best behavior - well dressed, cologned, polite, sexy and totally attentive to their needs.
You don't see them the way their wife gets to see them! You don't have to wash their dirty underwear, or clean their dirty dishes, or take care of them when they're sick. You don't have to yell at them to take the garbage out, or put the toilet seat down. You don't have to argue with them on weather to spend the tax return money on a new wide screen TV or on a new washer dryer.
Basically, for you, he's a fantasy.
For his wife - he's an ugly reality!
2007-03-18 14:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you mean by that.
Married men, to some women, means that they are suppose to be off limits but it's worth a challenge (no man can resist another woman). It's a game to seek and destroy.
On the other side, some married men are just comfortable talking to other women and are not looking for anything beyond talk. They are intriguing, only because they are committed to their relationship and are comfortable talking with anyone, with no real motive afterwards.
2007-03-18 20:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you can't have them, you just like the thought of winning something you can't have. Stay away from married men, you will be married one day and I don't think you will want some cute little thing trying to intrigue him.
2007-03-18 20:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i dunno... Why are you asking? I think alot of men are intriguing not just married men and women can be just as intriguing as well. Usually single women think and feel this way as they are interested in married men and they do not know what it is like to be married so this is intriguing and interesting to them. It is something they do not have.
2007-03-18 20:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They aren't. They're just like everyone else. The fascination is wanting something you can't have, or the excitement of trying to get it. They aren't so intriguing once you have to wash their underwear and pick their socks up off the floor.
2007-03-18 20:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is just the old adage that you want what you cannot have. Just remember if a married man will have an affair with you, he will also cheat on you. Never mess with another womans man. It will affect each of you forever here on this earth,and will affect you in eternity, sex with a married man/woman is purely adultery.
2007-03-18 20:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by doverslight61 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are people you're not supposed to have. They're supposed to be unattainable. They can't make a true commitment to you, but will make you feel like a princess.
2007-03-18 20:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by 1978girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thanks, I didn't know I was intriguing. I've got to go tell my wife I got a compliment.
2007-03-18 21:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cause they aint yours and some one else has already molded them into what they should have been!!! go ahead you sound like you like sloppy seconds!!! LOL
2007-03-18 20:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is somehting you are not supposed to want or have so it appears as a challange to get what you are not supposed to have
2007-03-18 20:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋