I messed up at school at the begging and now everyone thinks im mean and all that. I want to change but i dont think they will know that I am changing.
I want to be out going but when someone says something bad about me I just can't control my temper and everyone thinks im mean.
What should I do to change and the kids at school will know it?
Im in the 6th grade.
2007-03-18 13:03:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't have to announce to your friends that you have changed. No one really changes overnight. When you try to behave, they will notice the new you.
(1) Each morning as you start your day, ask God to give you the patience to deal with the people you meet.
(2) If someone tries to mess with you (some people will try to test you to see what you will do), take a deep breath and count from 100 backwards until your urge to fight goes away.
(3) remind yourself that there will always be someone who want's to start something, but it's not good for you to spend that much time being angry.
(4) (Try to make friends with kids who are friendly and nice, who will help you.
(5) Sit with your guidance counselor or your favorite teacher and explain your problem and ask for help.
Try to ignore people who like to annoy you and remember, you will be a much better person if you learn to control your anger.
2007-03-18 13:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋