Being "INSECURE" in a relationship?????
Being a secure in a relationship is good... don't get me wrong.
But being INsecure isn't bad either...
Insecure pretty much just means you're being aware.
Being cautious.
You're being realistic.
Not being too optimistic.
These are good characteristics if ya ask ME.
Your thoughts?
2007-03-18 13:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I agree with you. A little realistic thinking is healthy.
2007-03-18 13:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long the relationship has been going on. If it's been years, that's scary.
If it's relatively new, it's normal. I've been on the scariest, funnest roller-coaster ride of my life over the last 6 weeks with my new bf. In some ways, I want to feel settled, but I'm also enjoying the fears, tingles, tender yearnings...
oh, don't get me started...
2007-03-18 20:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not share in your thoughts of what insecure is.I am secure with myself and my relationship.Secure people do not live in dream worlds.I think they are just better able to cope with lifes ups and downs, than those who are insecure.
2007-03-18 20:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has their insecurities in relationships. I feel some insecurities about little things but nothing major. I don't fear my husband will leave me or be unfaithful, just little things.
2007-03-18 20:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a very secure relationship. I have been happily married to a fantastic woman for 51 years!
2007-03-18 20:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by ~~Fast Eddie~~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the first page of a relationship book you're writing.
2007-03-18 20:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the level of insecurity...too much insecurity can be bad and lead to a break up.
2007-03-18 20:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistic in life all the way around me.
2007-03-18 20:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋