why do women make sex out to be something important??

Question

sex has absolutely no meaning other than physical pleasure. or it can be an expression of lovve with whoever. but saving it for a special someone is useless. sex is not a dirty act and it is not sacred or anything special either. it is just a physical act. if it meant anything at all that was supposed to be special then it would not be acted out in terms of physicality. there is no suxh thing as true romantic love. love is nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain and us humans like to make it out to be more than it realy is because its pleasureable. but beleive me there is no such thing as true love. as a divorce lawyer i can tell you that a marriage almost always ends and the only time it doesnt is because the couple are either to old or to bitter to find anyone else and sticking with the partner they already have is a safer bet. so you dont have to make sex out to be more than something that it already is. just a meaningless pleasurable act.

do you agree?

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Answer 1

I agree and can already guess a certain ''rainy'' user here will call you a liar and say you are not a divorce lawyer. For her ''u r not alowd 2 type like dis'', you have to use proper spelling and grammar at all times. Little does she know she makes plenty of spelling, syntax and punctuation mistakes. BUT WHO CARES? This isn't English Class and that's what she fails to realize. I ''luve 2 type like dis but then i get ataked by every1'' which is why I don't.

EDIT

OH MY GOD SHE IS RIGHT BELOW ME!! 10 SECONDS AFTER I ANSWER THE QUESTION!! And guess what she says: ''you are not a divorce lawer'' I have a gift! I can predict the future! I already predicted the future with Deirdre O, Baba Yaga and now Rain. They are so predictible.

EDIT ::::::: Rain

This is impossible. He could not have asked 64 questions in 3 days, as he is a level 2 and may only ask 10 questions a day. 10(questions)x3(days)=30 questions total. Looks like you're the liar. Besides you DID (maybe only one) make a comment on Mr. Q's spelling. I'm sure Mr.Q probably remembers it. Another time, another lie.

Proove he is not a divorce lawyer.

Answer 2

You must have been burned pretty bad to say that love is nothing more than a chemical reaction in the brain. If you choose to look at it that way thats your business. But sex, whether you want to believe it or not, is a very powerful, very emotional act between two people. Its not nor has it ever been a meaningless pleasurable act. Maybe being a divorce lawyer has jaded you in some way but there are people out there who truly do love each other and use sex as a way to express their feelings for one another. My parents have been together for 25 years and have made 10 children in those 25 years and their the best example I have.

Answer 3

Some physical changes happen when you lose your virginity. The Hymen is ripped and a hard penis in inserted repeatedly over a raw and tender area. It is akward, painful and nerve racking, because you don't know what to expect. Now She's opened herself up to babies and diseases. There is a such thing as true love, but it does not have a time limit. Sickness and death play their roles as does divorce. So you mean to say, your daughter (or you) shouldn't wait for the right guy, just gap 'em for anyone? And keep gapping them, because it's just a physical act? That is what hookers and whores are for. If that is the case, then there are no boundries as to who can stick the "hole", because it is a pleasurable, ordinary physical act and there is nothing special about it. A father,cousin, uncle, friend, brother or stranger can meanlessly have sex with your daughter (or you), just because and that is OK with you? no, I do not agree.

Answer 4

To me, love is something much deeper and meaningful than just the act of sex. It is a bond shared between two people that connect on a spiritual level, who truly understand each other and care deeply for each other.

That chemical reaction in the brain is not what I'd consider to be the feeling of 'love', I'd describe that as 'lust'. If a couple based their marriage on this feeling alone, then it is sure to fail. People shouldn't confuse lust with love.

But there is one time that sex becomes special and that is when a couple are trying to bring new life in to the world. It changes the whole meaning of sex and it becomes something very meaningful ineed.

HTH : )

Answer 5

You're right about chemical reactions in the brain, but so is every other thing you think or almost every action you take.

At a physiological level, anyway.

From a more systemic level, sex is very important because it tends to lead toward procreation and passage of their genes to the next generation, something every successful biological organism does.

For women, it's even more important because human brains do not, at an organismal level, separate sex from procreation although they may not consciously make the connection. Built into that calculus is the fact that pregnancy (and therefore sex) is more costly to a woman than a man and that only by being in a situation where she can provide for herself throughout a pregnancy will she feel too comfortable about having sex.

Anything that puts that surety of support or quality of mate or security with a relationship that provides either increases a woman's stress level with sexual activity.

Romance is the socially accepted and partially physiologically reinforced means of reassuring women about the status of their relationship and therefore can cause a reduction in aversion to sex and increase the likelihood she has sex.

Answer 6

It is not just women who believe in the significance behind sexual encounters. Many men do as well. Sex can be extremely emotional in its early stages, and saving yourself for someone "special" is another way of saying that you are waiting for someone you feel safe with.

There is no such thing as casual sex...on some level, you always run a risk. Pregnancy, disease, unwanted emotional attachment, embarassment, obsession. Yes, its a physical pleasure, but with the right person, under the right circumstances, it is a mental pleasure as well.

From your stance, I'm going to assume that you've yet to experience this...and for that, I'm truly sorry.

Answer 7

Well, this is your point of view.

As a divorce lawyer, you only see the bad things, but I knowa lot of people who are happily married. It doesn't mean that they don't argue sometimes, amd that they've never had big problems in their relationship, but they decide to try again, and it works sometimes, you know!

I agree with you, sex is just sex. But for me, sex with someone I care about is way more pleasurable than with a one-night stand. That's probably one of the main differences between men and women as far as sex is concerned. Maybe it's cultural, I don't know, but that's not the point here.

That being said, I wouldn't want my bf/husband to cheat on me, which means I still believe sex is important. It should mean something, when in a relationship.

But, hey! To each their own! Hope you find someone who is on the same wavelength as you!

Answer 8

I agree to an extent in that sex is what you make it to be. I guess it goes back to before decent birth control where having sex meant getting pregnant and having babies. You would want to be married and not left with a baby from a man you didn't know. Today decent birth control has meant you don't have to worry so much about that sort of thing (although it still happens) Ultimately it's up to the individual to make that choice about meaning and who they want to sleep with, be it that special someone or some random one night stand. Everyone can sleep around with whoever but it's not going to make people any happier necessarily. People will still get divorced and people will still not get along and you will still have a job.

Answer 9

Clinically speaking you have some good points. The US economy makes billions on the concept of romantic love. Madison Avenue would have dried up without portrayals of romantic love to women and girls. Watch 20 commercials and see how many contain some element of romance. Don't blame the women, they have been conditioned from birth to think this way, from toys to movies. It is a dying art. I can't remember the last time I experienced the giddy, warm chemical reaction! You may not be too fond of it but women of a certain age love and need this and deserve to experience it if they can.

Answer 10

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