Ok. so i have been friends with this girl for a few years. our relationship has definelty had its ups and downs. i really want us to be friends because we have so much fun and can be really close. however.. i feel like i am putting more into the relationship, and that it means more to me. i hate that because it makes me feel like crap. we will have good periods, but then she will pull away. i tried talking with her about it, and i thought it went really well. she said she doesnt realize it when she pulls away and that i should tell her. now i feel like i am being super watchful. lately she has been pulling away and stuff so i told her, but it doesnt seem to have affected her. i feel like my talking to her did nothing. i call her, but when i ask why she never calls she says she hates to talk on the phone... i dont know what to do. my other best friend is just so great and supportive, that i cant help comparing them. i cant decide if she is just using me.. what should i do?? help
2007-03-18 12:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by runnergirl963 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does this person have other friends that they seem to always make time to see or talk to? You should not have to put all the energy into the relationship. If she really wanted to talk to you more she would take more initiative. If you are okay with just a casual friendship then there is nothing to do. But it does not sound like this person is interested in a close friendship with you.
2007-03-19 06:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you and is just seeing if you like her in the same way by caring if she leaves you. Maybe she is getting a lot of crap from ppl for being friends with a guy...! Possibly she just doesn't want to be friends anymore..
2007-03-18 19:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tigeress12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only matters how you feel when youre with her. not what you think when youre away. if you have a good time together whats the big deal ...youre the one putting out the extra effort...put that on yourself. some people are just great to talk to even if you just have to go an extra mile for them. peace
2007-03-18 19:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm still stuck in the same situation, follow your heart
2007-03-18 19:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋