How would you feel if your friend lied to you about how she met her boyfriend? I'm going through that right now and I cant stand it. Yeah I will admit that I lied to her about what her boyfriend said to me...but she has lied to me from the beginning and I just cant stand it. Shes my really good friend and I really dont want to lose her and I'm not sure if I want to face her tomrrow in school. We have been in arguments for almost two weeks and its all b/c of her boyfriend. Please help me!! I dont know what to do!!!
2007-03-18 12:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I lied to her...two days afterwards I told her the truth about why I was lying and she understood...but everything just seems to be going downhill b/w us!!
2007-03-18 12:20:04 · update #1
When she lied to me i found out the hard way and confronted her about it. then she blew up on me saying that it wasnt my business.....but i mean.. icare for her..and i was just trying to figure out why she would lie to me about how she met her boyfriend
2007-03-18 12:24:50 · update #2
Well, you're both lying to each other, so I don't know what kind of friendship the two of you have!
Why don't you tell her that the both of you have made mistakes but that you both should just forget the past and start fresh agreeing to not lie to each other any more?
2007-03-18 12:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon...you can't compete with a boyfriend....I know it sucks....but when your friend becomes involved...her friends go to the back burner...Just don't expect the same out of the relationship right now...if you can lessen your expectations (it hurts when you aren't feeling the same connection as you once were)...and wait it out...eventually she will get through the newness and you might beable to save your friendship...but in the meantime you are going to have to give it space....good luck.
2007-03-18 19:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset if a friend lied to me.
talk to her gentely telling her how you feel.
Best of LUCK! :)
2007-03-18 19:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! maybe tomorrow you guys can go to the counselors office
2007-03-18 19:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW MUCH LYING, IS ENOUGH?
YOU must stop Lying FIRST!
Thanks, RR
2007-03-18 19:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what comes around goes around
2007-03-18 19:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell what happened first.
2007-03-18 19:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋