i lost my virginity yesterday while no one was home. it wasnt quite what i expected it to be. i mean i thought it would be longer. he's had sex before and said it usually last 30min to an hour. but why did he finish so fast with me? he also told me because he was worried that someone would walk in on us.
it still felt good but is it always going to be like this?
is it normal for a guy to "finish" because of fear?
2007-03-18 12:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Early in a relationship it tends to be fast, but later it will be longer, but probably not a half hour for a long time.
2007-03-18 12:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually a guy can't *** if he's scared.
Sex isn't just about the intercourse part, it's also about what leads up to it. Sometimes that is what feels the best, and then the actual sex is just a satifying end. all of that can last a really long time, the longest I've ever had foreplay AND sex was about two hours. Just sex... about 15 minutes. Don't worry about it, it becomes better with practice. but ALWAYS USE PROTECTION and pull out. pregnancy scares aren't fun.
2007-03-18 19:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by greekgoddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're fairly young. I lost my virginity when I was 21. The guy, who is now my ex, was the same way. LOL...you got it better than me though because yours was good. It's pretty bad when you have it for the first time and you know it's suppose to be better.
The night I lost mine, I already did what older women mastered....fake an orgasm AND think to myself "Are you finished yet?". He finished fast and never took his time even though I asked him to numerous times. I was disappointed as well as you might be feeling but you know what? After my ex, I waited almost 3 years to have sex again and when I did, which was 5 months ago, the wait was worth it. The guy I've been with for about 9 months finally took the time to go slow but thats because we are taking out relationship slow. Everyone gets their hits and misses, sweety. Sex is good but you have to balance your thinking out to make sure it's worth it and communicate with your guy, and any other guy you DECIDE to sleep with, about what you want. This is a lesson so from now base your decisions on what you learned from this one.
2007-03-18 19:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore all those other answers. I had sex on Monday night several times and it was amazing. Each time lasted at least 30-45 minutes. I gave her at least 5 orgasms that night and I had one big one at the end of the night. Guys just gotta learn how to control it. Unfortunately for you girls, alot of them don't know how to.
Use protection and if you like it, then try it again. It'll only get better. You begin to realize that sex really isn't that big of a deal once you lose your virginity. If you want to talk more about this, feel free to contact me.
2007-03-18 19:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Marky Mark 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welsome to the rest of your life!!! Some guys just "finish" faster than others. I hope you guys used protection!!!
2007-03-18 20:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by lucygoosy2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirty minutes to an hour?? HAHAHA Foreplay could last that long if he wanted it to but don't expect that. Five-10 mins. maybe and that's stretching it. Now YOU have to teach him what to do.
2007-03-18 19:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he cant last 30 minutes- he lied
he will ALWAYS finish fast
yeah thats sex for you
hope you used protection, so you dont get pregnant or get a disease from him
2007-03-18 19:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is he ur boyfriend, or did he just want to f*** u?
2007-03-18 19:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by sexyhot_dancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋