ok ummm i have been dating this guy for about a month and hes great i like him and he hasnt hurt me or really even upset me, not even once. but my ex called today n he says he wants me back we broke up mutual because we felt the realionship was stressing us out. we were getting very serious because we have been together for like 6 months and i love him so much but he has a certin way of hurting me easily usally its when he gets angry and argues but i think everyone does that . so do u think i should break up with him to date my ex agian??please be honest no stupid answers!!
2007-03-18 12:06:37 · 9 answers · asked by hunny_bunn101 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
depends.. just try to see if whom among the two would make you happier.. its not that who hurts u most means your less happy with him.. just try to see who you're more comfortable with.. who you can share your problems with.. and the one that you really love.. if its your ex.. then just try to tell the one you're dating at present the truth.. that you have tried to forget your EX but then eventually, you still love him(your ex). just do it as early as possible coz you're dating this guy for still about a month, if you're gona spend more time with him, its gonna be difficult to leave him... and by the way, the one you're dating has not hurted you yet? its probably because your still new.. if you will be dating a little longer, the true color of the guy "MIGHT" come out.. i am not assuming.. im just saying that there is a big possibility
2007-03-18 12:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by ibn khaldun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you should really be with either guy, actually. It's not fair to the guy you're dating if your heart is with someone else, but at the same time, your ex hurts you a lot and that's not fair to you. If he really did hurt you a lot and easily, that's not going to change and he'll keep on doing that. trust me, there are guys that don't get angry in a mean way and hurt your feelings, and they're worth searching around for. hope this helps!
2007-03-18 12:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Natalia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really really think that if you break up with the nice guy to go out with the jerk, you will begin a downward spiral in your relationships that will find you at 35, looking like you're fifty, beat on every day, and still turning down the good guys, You think I'm kidding and I'm not-once you get a taste of men who treat you like ****, its hard to remember what nice guys are like, or to even know how to have a healthy relationship.
2007-03-18 12:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. I did it once, and when i was back with my ex, the same things reoccurred the second time around, like the first time. You deserve to be with someone that will treat you right, as you don't want to end up in a repeating scenario with your ex. If he says he's has changed his ways, don't believe him coz most of the time it ain't true.
2007-03-18 12:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is MY personal experience.
So me and this one girl, Erin, were supposed to go out this one night, right? So the day it came, I ran to the shower and got all dressed up (black LS, my lucky Levis, gelled hair, topped off with the AtaxX of Axe).
Problem is, she never showed up.
So the following Monday, I asked her why, and she said her student council meeting ran late.
To this day I don't believe her.
Her so called ex got with her, twice, in the same year!
My heart was broken for several months, and still is.
So, don't go back with your ex. It will break the other dude's heart.
And if I were your man, and I found out you were getting back with your ex, I would stab myself, shoot myself, or just scream and jump off the Alamo or the Yokohama Bay Bridge.
2007-03-18 12:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No when you broke up with ur ex it was for a reason, going back isint goin to do anythin but result in you guys breaking up again, i think you should stay with ur current bf and move on..and by the way y is ur ex back again? sometimes ppl wanna get back with you when they see you w/someone new
2007-03-18 12:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy who is nice to you. No one deserves to be hurt, but don't get too serious with anyone until you're about 20.
2007-03-18 12:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by mjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy your with now. If you've broken up with the ex.. he must have had some issues. I wouldn't ruin a healthy relationship for one that wasn't the best.
2007-03-18 12:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by jlo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're considering it, I think you should. You owe it to the guy who is treating you decent to tell him what is going on and let him down easy.
2007-03-18 12:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Catman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋