I'm 13 and i'm like in looooooove with this guy in my grade level. I already did it 2ce with him. Now i found out that i'm pregnant.What should i do?
2007-03-18 12:06:02 · 21 answers · asked by softballin9 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok im 13 so i kinda kno wat you r feeling but you had sex with him?!! that is somthing i thought about. i mean i was like it would just be too weird to have it with him. now that your pregnant i think that you should go through with the pregnancy but give your child up for adoption. while you r pregnant think about why this happend, what would happen if you go through with keeping the baby. my mother had me at 15 and life has been really hard for her. just do wat feels right for you
make sure the boy you think you love feels the same way and respects your desion. just think that you need to limit yourself.
2007-03-18 12:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sizzl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thing you need to do is STOP having sex. 2nd is talk to a trusted adult, a parent, teacher, etc. Be honest about being pregnant. (by the way, how do you know you are? Did you take a test?) This is not something that will go away on it's own and the longer you wait the more harm it can do. If you are planning on having this baby you need to get prenatal care for you and the baby as soon as possible.
Also, guys this age have no idea what love is. Unfortunately they have more horomones than they do brains at this point. So don't rely on him for much help.
2007-03-18 19:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Connie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy do I remember this, I got pregnant when I was 17, I gave birth 1 1/2 months after I graduated high school. and a month after I married my husband.
I told my counselour and then she helped me tell my parents, tell a counselour or a trusted teacher. Then you and your parents can go from there. Get someone on your side first, then tell your parents. Having someone with you when you tell your parents really helps, at least it helped me. but think things through. Try not to do anything rashly.
2007-03-18 19:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by SVU fan for life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to tell your boyfriend and your parents. It won't be the easiest thing to do but you need to tell them or else they will find out on their own and be even madder because you didn't tell them...... PLEASE don't get an abortion though it is killing life. And don't feel bad your not the only one who has had this problem. I am 15 with a 3 month old child and am already pregnant again. If you need someone to talk to or to listen email me at bowerskassie@yahoo.com
2007-03-18 19:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too late now for sorry, but you need to figure out a way to tell your mum.
then you need to contact planned parenthood for assistance
and then register at the local health department to start getting prenatal care and medications...
then you need to get lots of rest, eat right, stop smoking/drinking if you do and keep your doctor appointments...
after you deliver, then maybe you could begin using condoms unless you are ready to conceive another child..
good luck
2007-03-19 00:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i am ur age how would u even think about having sex theres to many meanies in that world that will tear u apart what about school how will those kids treat u... the teachers what will they think...well heres what i think u r way to young... but u shouldnt get an abortion u would probably regret it for all of your life...just give the kid up for adoption keep a special place for the baby in your heart... be a normal kid again(yes we are kids) and DONT HAVE SEX!!!
2007-03-18 20:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by living the life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are too young.but i got pregnant with my first child when i was 14.i had her when i was 15.and it has been really hard.i am now 29 with 3 kids.they are 13,10,8.you really need to think about your options.please tell your mom if you havent yet.with my first i didnt tell nobody until i was 8 months.i hid it real well.it was the wrong thing to do.good luck!
2007-03-18 19:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by krazygirl30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I can't see how being judgemental will help you at this point. Do you have an adult you can talk to? Your parents or someone else if you can't talk to them? I hope you find someone to help you through this. You have a lot of decisions to make and you need someone who can help you. I hope you reach out to someone for some help.
2007-03-18 19:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by KayKay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell the guy u loooooooove that ur preg. (not trying to be mean but see how much he loves u after that) and then tell ur and his parents and then decide if u r either going to keep the kid or put it up for adoption...... abortion is not that answer.... u kill nur baby when u have an abortion.....
i hope u learn not to have sex until ur old enough now.....
2007-03-18 20:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should deal with it and take care of your baby. A 13 year old has no business having sex unless she is married.
2007-03-18 21:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋