There is this one gay guy I know that wont speak to me because I am Bisexual and not gay, all this time he thought I was gay and that hurt him somehow. How did it hurt him? I dont get it, we were only friends and now he says I was using him... Please explain.
2007-03-18 11:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its possible he felt betrayed because he thought you were disclosing all about yourself to him, not just some of you
people can get upset abotu bisexuals because of jealousy too, i mean you can have a normal het appearing relationship where most gays cant and it seems sometimes unfair
please dont take it to hear, he will come around eventually and if he doesnt then he is not good enough to be your freind
my best freind is bi and im gay and sometimes i see the way others in the community treat his and it makes me sad, because he is not all about sex, just love and doesnt care what body it comes in
2007-03-19 10:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by drezdogge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't answer about using him.
in my experience, bi's can be viscious to gay people.
i've seen it and experienced it.
still do.
perhaps he had a bad experience
maybe you can help him get past it.
good luck
2007-03-19 03:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by john john 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋