I'm 14 years old, and?

Question

i think i might be pregnant. :/
what do i do?

Answer 1

tell your parents.

Answer 2

well for a start why would you be having sex at 14? second you need to talk with someone about it, weather it be a parent doctor or a councilor or maybe even a friends parent that you trust. th reason why i tell you this is because a parent will have to go with you to the doctors as you are to young. you need to go to the doctors and get looked at ASAP as being the age you are you will most likely be put down as a high risk pregnancy as you are so young.

i got pregnant young aswell but it only happend coz i was raped and that was when i was 12 - 13 years old. still i had a miscarrage and when i was 19 i had another miscarrage July 2006 (as it was before my birthdat in August i wasnt 20 yet) i am now pregnant again and it took me 6 months to do it so most of the time it wont happen the first time but thats not accounting for all thoes woman who have gotten pregnant on the 1st go. i am successfully 13 weeks pregnant and happy. if you would like someone to speak with i am mostly online so you can contact me on [e-mail] and we can have a chat if you'd like via MSN.

i am not here to judge you i want to help you.

Answer 3

WOW babygirl. Please go to your parents. It's gonna be hard. It's gonna be some tears and yelling but that's life. After the drama comes the love so just hang in there. They got to get over the shock. To them, and a lot of us out here, you're still a baby. You should be at the mall or downloading off itunes. So let them freak out, you kind of just cracked their dreams for you. You have entered a whole new ballgame. Now is time to think about your baby. You have a lot of choices. You can't make them alone. Don't even trip on the daddy right now. Just make sure you tell your parents. You don't want to miscarry. It hurts big time. They can get you to a Dr. and make sure you stay healthy no matter what your choice. Either way your life is going to change and if you don't make the right decisions you might regret it. I have a 5 yr old and a lil sis. My sis got preg at 17. We freaked but we accepted it. I would want my lil girl to tell me. I know I would freak. Probably scream and cry and ask why but then I'd say it's okay. We'll get through this together. Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

well first of all you need to confirm that you actually are pregnant. So that would mean that you would have to find a way to a store to buy a pregnancy test. Make sure you follow all the directions and it should be 99% accurate. If you are close enough to your parents talk it over with them, I know that is easier said than done. If you cant talk to your parents planned parenthood is a good place to start. Best of luck and i hope everything works out for you.

Answer 5

I'm 18 and due in September. People are going to put you through absolute hell over being young and having a baby. Don't do anything that you will regret. Follow your heart and do what it tells you to. One of the hardest parts is telling your parents. After you get that out of the way, hopefully they will be supportive. It probably won't be right away (God knows mine weren't).. But eventually they will come around. Take time to think about it and find out for sure if you are before you rush to do anything or tell anybody. Good luck!

Answer 6

first of all...why do you think your pregnant? are you late?
i was a young mother myself. i know it's very scary. you could do 1 of 3 things. 1st try to call around and find a pregnancy center that offers free pregnancy test. they will test you give you the answer and also give you other helpful info if you are. the 2nd is go buy a test yourself take see if you are and tell your patents.the 3rd is what i did and i think is the thing you need to do. tell your parents!!!! be honest with them. if your not them they need to put you on birth control before you do end up pregnant.
just a little extra advice. i don't know if it was your idea or his to have sex but you are so Young. i love my kids more than anything in this world. but i missed out on a lot. it's not the white house on a hill with a puppy playing in the yard like kids think it is.
god bless

Answer 7

You poor dear. I would confide in your parents. It doesn't matter if they support you or not. They should know right away so you can get prenatal care as soon as possible. Second, you and the possible father need to discuss his role in all of this and how he intends to deal with his responsibilities. Consider home school, if it's more comfortable for you. There are so many more resources today than when I was a teenager, look to your community and free clinics for support, classes and resources because they can help with all of your pregnancy needs, birth control needs, baby issues, finances and basic questions as well. Best wishes. Remember, make your parents your 1st priority on this, they are on your side.

Answer 8

Its really up to u and your parents. If they know already. But the best thing for you to do is to find out for sure and if you are let you parents know. They will help you decide what is best for you and your unborn child. If you find not that you are not pregnant the best thing to do is to not sex at your age. You are to young to be thinking about have sex you need to be thinking about school and graduating and going to college. Just make the right choice about telling your parents if you are so they can help you.

Answer 9

I suggest you talk to an older female (aunt, sister,mom) and get htem to give you a test. If you are, you better tell you parents. Then you need to tell your parents the name of the guy that you..you know.. did it with. I do hope that your aren't pregnant because if you are, your going to have to grow up really quick. and be responsible. The baby didn't ask to be born.. If it does turn out your pregnant, I wish you the best and hope you have supportive family members. Enjoy your little bundle of joy. :) Good luck!

Answer 10

one of my friend's daughters, is only just turning 14 herself, and has a 1 year old girl. This was not by her choice, she was raped, but by the time they found out she was too far along to get 'rid' of it. But now they have a beutiful baby girl, and she still gets to live her childhood and go to school since luckily the parents do alot of the raising of the baby. You wont be able to get thru it alone, definetly tell your parents, and i hope they will be helpful.

Answer 11

Buy a pregnancy test at the pharmacy to confirm or deny your suspicion.
If your not pregnant , stop having sex until your an adult and use protection! Your still a child and not capable of supporting a child let alone you and a baby. Get educated.