I want to tell my wife that I like to wear her clothes, her lingerie the most. (Bras, panties, and nightgowns) How do I tell her that I want to start wearing them all the time, even out in public with her?
2007-03-18 11:44:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are some things you need to think of before you do this...one:what impact is it going to have on your life two: what impact is it going to have on hers? And one other thing its one thing to wear them in the house it is annother to wear themoutside of it there are things like jobs, friends, and family that has to be thought about and if you have kids that is another thing...because CPS doesnt like cross dressing they identify it sadly as a psychological problem when a man out of the blue starts to dress like a woman...I am not saying that you shouldn't but I am saying that it has to have some thought and good communication after you have done all that I would realy realy be strait forth about what you want and need
2007-03-18 12:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by KarmicFacilitator2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just need to tell her, but do it slowly. One night while your both in bed, start talking with her about her clothes & what it feels like wearing them. When she asks why, just tell her that you're curious about what it would feel like to dress-up in women's clothes. Then wait and see how she answers & then you'll get a better idea how you can tell her that you'd like to see what it's like to wear her clothes. She might even dress you up in her clothes right there, just give it a try.
2007-03-18 18:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to start to open yourself and tell her as soon as you can...
You will feel FREE once you say it all...
Wearing womens clothes doesn't mean you're gay... However if you like to be with a man, then DO IT !
We came to this world just to be happy and let other be happy too...
Just be honest with your wife... She will understand. If not, then she didn't love you too much...
I wish you THE BEST LUCK !!
2007-03-18 12:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tasty-BOY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow thats kinda weird I guess you would have to just tell her, But the question is do you still love your wife, or are you a Homosexual????? Good luck with that!
2007-03-19 03:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to do this and you are sure this is who you want to be, and i mean you have to be completely sure, then i think you need to tell her to be fair and true to her, she really needs to know and it's not a question as to if she loves you she will understand, because she loves you enough to marry you but really she may not understand, but she might, just expalin how you feel and see where it all goes from there, just know that what ever anyones tells you don't matter, YOU have to make the untimate decision for yourself!!!!
2007-03-18 13:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her. Wait for a moment alone with her, a nice relaxing day, and tell her. If she doesn't accept you for who you are then you're better off without her.
2007-03-18 11:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your going to have to be honest, its not such and unusual thing
i suggest uying yoru own though, and not stretching hers
in all seriousness, have a serious heart to heart, explain what you want to do, and that you love her and this is about YOU not her and does not disolve yoru love for her
2007-03-18 12:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by drezdogge 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When she comes home one day, be sitting in bed with her stuff on,she will ge the picture.
2007-03-18 11:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I told my wife...she didn't understand. We got counseling and she didn't get it. We got divorced and I put on my dress and I couldn't have been happier.
2007-03-18 11:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do what i did, next time your with her shopping hold a pair of pantes up to your self and ask her if she thinks they will fit you
2007-03-18 17:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by maryjo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋