i am 3 months pregnate i ranaway from home im at my boyfriends house in kansas were getting married tomorow i and i am only 14 not even old enough to date but my parents dont care they dont even pay attention to me and my boy friend is 18 the baby is his so i cant just run away from him hes the only person who loves me i need help please
2007-03-18 11:35:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
honey u dont have to marry anyone just because your pregnant and if your boyfriend is 18 then he will get in serious trouble if he marries you.
take a bit of time out dont rush into anything. i know you are frightened but getting married will not help it will only add to your troubles.
have u got a friend or family member u can confide in? please be careful and think this through
2007-03-18 12:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this honey, but in the state of KS you cannot get married without a license that takes 3 days to get (at the cost of $75.00) and you will need a parent signature since you are under 18.
I would suggest NOT looking at marriage right now but at trying to find a good safe home to take care of yourself and your child. Just because your boyfriend got you pregnant does not mean he loves you or is going to stick around.
2007-03-18 19:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Connie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 14 years old, you cannot get married without your parents consent anyways, at least one of them has to be there with you, while getting your marriage license. Besides that fact, he is 18 yrs old, which means he could get in trouble for having sex with you in the first place. You really need to talk to an adult that can help you in your situation.
2007-03-18 19:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly your to young to know about "love" do you even know what the word means? you shouldn't be pregnant, and your going to need your parents signatures inorder to get married. and if your parents put out a missing persons your bf could be charged w/ kidnap! so you might want to think before you do anything else! good luck
Brandie
2007-03-18 18:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Boyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to get married just because you are pregnant!!
i think you should wait you are soooo young what if it doesnt work out between you two besides he can get in trouble just for having sex with you
look in your phone book for pregnancy hotlines or something like that for someone to talk to
2007-03-18 18:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋