2007-03-18 11:12:07 · 76 answers · asked by Banshee 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I was afraid to be alone and a bit on the rebound. I had broken up from a 4 year relationship, joined the USAF about 6 months later to get away then my first ex was the first man to actually propose to me. I accepted, asking myself in front of the Justice of the Peace, How bad could it be (marrying somene I I didn't love but thought I could learn to)? Well, I found out several months later and by then I felt I deserved whatever he could dish out for my poor decision to marry him in the first place believing that since my parents never got a divorce so I never should. He was literally torturous for 3.5 years until I realized I would literally die if I didn't get a divorce so I asked him for one while he was temporarily stationed thousands of miles away. The lessons were many but here's the main one that comes to mind: It's better to be alone and fight your own demons that live with someone else's.
2007-03-26 02:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Susan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That love is not forever but it is blind. That happines comes from within and not from others or possessions. That you can fool some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but in the end it you who is the fool. That a knee opertation hurts afterwards. That the grass is always greener on the other side. That friends come and go but relatives will always be a pain in the **** and finally that it is ok to be who you are.
2007-03-18 11:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by oeasensible 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Procrastination = Failure
Never to take Opportunities Lightly
Nobody is worth your trust except your parents before marriage and your husband after marriage
Get 'professional' counselling (whatever you've heard, read or people tell you - remember humans make errors, its facts and figures that matter) before taking every huge step of your life whether it be your choice of education, deciding to get married, deciding to have a child, financial decisions. These are milestones which will affect your whole life and so treat with extreme caution!
2007-03-25 19:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by LibraCrazyVirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That life is fragile.
Lost my 17 year old brother on July 5, 1992 in a car accident.
2007-03-25 17:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that even when your parents let you down as a child you can make something of yourself you can be whoever you want to be that every lesson is a learning curb you should take the good from it and move on
every experience can uplift you if anger does not weigh you down
2007-03-24 13:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by wise1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Get Married at 18, serve down the gulf with Royal Navy and convince yourself your wife wont be Sh*gg*ng around.
She is!
2007-03-25 13:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by kevsta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy and child birth hurt but its worth it! thats definently a hard lesson learnt and the lesson never stops with having to let them go and grow up. :(
2007-03-24 16:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by jo.joggers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned everything the "hard Way". And Its taught me to read life's instruction manual for the easy way!
2007-03-26 05:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What lesson HASN'T life taught me the hard way?
2007-03-18 11:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Life's a bit ch then you marry one.
If at first you don't succeed you're forked.
Don't let the bustards grind you down.
You can lead a horse to water but a pencil must be lead.
2007-03-18 11:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by fatherf.lotski 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋