me and my bf been together for 2 and hlfs years! we broke up last year for 2 months he left me after saying i was a bunny boiler! but i protest that and alot ppl agree that he was using it as an excuse! 2 months ago he asked me back, i said yes! as we could make a fresh start!
last weekend he admitted to me that he has cheated 3 times on me!... once sex with a girl from college, once a snog with his first love and once foreplay at a party!
i dont like cheat but i admire ppl that can tell the truth! so in return i admitted i had cheated on with his brother!
as a result we decided we were both in the wrong and now all the lies were out we could move on!
today his brother contacted us! his bro told me that my bf will cheat on me at every chance, that he hadnt wanted to cheat more times then he had and is only with me cause no one else wants him! he even told me a time my bf cheated that my bf never told me!!!!
Am i wasting my time and his? what would you do! i hate myself
2007-03-18 11:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ohh and he has applied for a job at my work that looks like hes away to get it! i lost my last very well paid good job as i had to take time off cause we split and my mental and physical health went down hill! i dont want to work with him case anything happens! but when i told him this he just went in a mood!
2007-03-18 11:42:55 · update #1
you need to end this relationship. too much cheating going on. find someone who you can trust and who you want to be with.
2007-03-18 11:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy but yes you should let both of them go as it sounds like the brother just wants you for his self I had my gf back after 5 times but you can never trust and you have to be very strong not to get your own back one day .You will be better making a new start on your own or with someone new once you get to know them well.
2007-03-18 11:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by andrew h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing?
if you cheated on him then surely the emotion doesnt run that deep
plus how trust-worthy is the brother?
is he just doing it to split you's up?
does he love you?
question after question
tell ur man you've heard some rumours about him and you need to know if they're true, then tell him to back off while you think things through
2007-03-18 11:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pair of you need to stop this right now. There is no point being with someone who will cheat on you and you will cheat on him to get revenge. Grow up and move on it will do you good in the long run!
However, do you think his brother was saying this in the hope to get another try with you?
2007-03-18 11:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on it all but do give up on him! He's not worth the hurt! But do not give up your job! If he's as much of a jerk as you've described he won't last very long in the job at your workplace - people tend to pick up on this kind of person no matter how hard they work to conceal their bad points. And give his brother a wide berth as well because he sounds as toxic as the first guy. Best of luck and value yourself - you really deserve much better and I hope you start by caring for yourself.
2007-03-18 11:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cara an chait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both brothers!! You are risking your mental health staying in such an emotionally abusive and self esteeem shattering relationship
2007-03-18 11:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Litmus180 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on before you invest any more time and energy in a relationship that is doomed. I don't think he respects or loves you. If he did, he wouldn't want anyone else.
2007-03-18 11:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would end it, move on and fine someone that respects you, trust, and is honest with you. if he cheated on you more then 3 times your deff. wasting your time with him. Once a cheater always a cheater...and it seems that way for him.
2007-03-18 11:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by reptar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to me why you hate yourself?i cant understand! you havent done anything wrong!hate him and not yourself!and find someone else whos good in bed !
2007-03-18 11:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did him, done him...that's all folks. Move along lil' doggie. He has...many times.
2007-03-18 11:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Luvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋