My friend lets call her Ashley, has been not acting like a good friend this year. She has been my friend since birth (literaly) and she has treated me likea peice of trash all year. realy. And i have been holding a grudge on her since 3 years ago when she stole my Best friend, who was also my crush. And she knew he was. So she had her parents call his mom and ask her if they could watch ashley like 5 days a week and pick her up from caticism. So my crush never really liked ashley at all, and she was my friend. So i would call my crush and his parents wouldn't let me come over because they where watching ashley. So (we are in the 8th grade now) in the 6th grade me and Ashley where never friends. Than in the 7th grade we where again but not that close and later in the year of the 7th grade till early 8th grade we became really good friends again. O yeah, and our parents had always been good friends too. But than, she had a boyfriend, and he became the only important thing, where before,
2007-03-18 11:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by puffalump 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I always hung out with her and her boyfriend. And than she got a new friend, and they where all buddy buddy. So than her old friends would get fed up with her behavior and she would always use them and I. But they still considereed her a friend. But than a few days ago, she told my other good friend and also her longtime, good friend, that her new friend knew her betterthan any of us. Also she had just gotton a hicky from her boyfriend so one of our friends was concerned about her and siad that to her other good friend, who told her what she had said. THan Ashley got mad at the girl who showed concern. So she called her and had her boyfriend and her new firend listen in on the convo, and than her boyfriend started cussing the concerned friend out. So everone has been mad at her for treating them like trash, and her new friend was going to throw her a suprise party, and they wanted all her friends to pitch in 18 bucks to get her a new ipod and now none of her friend want to be her frend
2007-03-18 11:10:16 · update #1
I think you should walk away from this acquaintance. I would hardly label her as a friend. You have choices in your friends. and if that's the only friend you have I think you'd be better off with none at all! Sounds like a lifetime of her drama and and back stabbing if you choose to have her in your life. Just speak to her like she were just a person you meet on the street. You don't have to be mean just dont' be anything to her. Let her steal other peoples boyfriends, you've already learned your lesson . I don't think you should hate her or anyone, that is somthing you don't want in your sole is hate. Just know there are those kind of people in the world and stay away from them.
As far as the $18. bucks for the Ipod. Ask yourself would she put $18. or any money towards you a new Ipod. Just ell them you don't have the money. Don't be guilted into anything!
2007-03-18 11:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person. Get her something, make it heartfelt. Really, though, if you are still having problems, talk to her about it. Put things in the past and think about the future.
Okay, I just read the additional details, and obviously she is not a very good friend. If you two can make up for everything that has happened, and admit everything, then try to be friends. But otherwise, it sounds like you should, hate to say it, but not be great friends. It sounds like she is going to get you in trouble, one way or another. Still be nice to her, and every one else, but find someone true and reliable. NOT a boy.
2007-03-18 18:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her. Remember boys come and go but it's better to have a girlfriend close to that you can talk to about whatever is on you mind. I have a friend that I have been close to since 5th grade and we now 40 year old. We had our ups and down and I wouldn't trade her for any one now or then
2007-03-18 18:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by sansan4828 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You seriously should talk to her about your feelings about this and then if she doesn't respect you for it she's not a true friend. If she appolagizes *sp* then she must care even a little.
2007-03-18 18:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by reptar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well do you like her? you don't have to a huge party for her.treat her nicely and she will treat you nicely.
if she is a real friend she wont even care if she doesn't get a party.
2007-03-18 18:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by skb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do absolutely "nothing" because obviously the two of you are NOT friends.
2007-03-18 18:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well theres nothing u really can do if people hate her they just hate her u cant always change people feelings incertain situations in this case if they really dont like her u cant do nothing about it all U can do is be her friend
2007-03-18 18:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if people don't like her for who she is then they don't know her very well. my friend she has problems and i just say you people are rude and that they can be stuck up people are brats so you got to show them who they really are.
2007-03-18 18:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Prentzel B. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, from your lonnnnng paragraph, you aren't a friend to her, nor she to you.
Because "real" friends don't do what YOU and HER do/did to each other.
So don't do sh!t for her birthday, she's a snot and....well you know what I'm gonna say next. So there.
2007-03-18 18:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes. you should talk to her and ask her if there is a problem that she should talk to you about. since its her bday though, you should be nice and act normal.
2007-03-18 18:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Meaghan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋